Is it true that Gay people are gay because they can't manage to attract the opposite sex?

[Anonymous]

I'd say this isn't true. I have been able to attract the opposite sex, on a rare occasions but it has happened. So I'm bisexual and for as long as I could remember, I liked girls and it wasn't because I couldn't attract the opposite sex. Hell, I didn't even care for boys half the time, I just wanted a girl to hold hands and kiss with 😂😂😂

[icequeen03]

This is kinda stupid. Gay people just have attraction for the opposite gender. Lots of guys find lesbians attractive, and lots of girls find gay guys attractive. They could attract the other gender, they just don't want to

[I_Am_Sazerac]

Not trying to be rude but that reasoning is absolute bullshit... it's a choice. Not a mental illness, not something you're born with, etc.

Yes some things can influence you but ultimately you choose to go with what you find most comfortable.

[Guffrus]

You should stop listening to whoever told you that bullshit.

I would imagine you are American and that the person or people who told you that are religious nut jobs.

[WesBrewer]

most people are gay from the beginning but some are gay because they attract no one.

[SlightlyEccentric]

As someone who is bi, I can say it's a mix of both.

[boggboss]

Truly being gay I don't believe so no as true attraction we don't really have control over

[Jamie05rhs]

That's the story with all the gay people I know. (No offense.). Either that or they had bad experiences.

[genericname85]

if being gay was a decision, conversion therapy would work.

[Anonymous]

Only a woman would ask this question. When men are straight, they are ACTUALLY straight and the idea of doing anything sexual with another man is repulsive, and nothing changes that.

[DanaeAdam5]

I love how people are actually answering seriously to this 😂

[Anonymous]

For women... sometimes
for men no.

[Skankhunt]

No, that's bullshit.