When we first got together he played hrs on in and I ended up making a huge mistake because all of his energy and time was going to that. He has not played for 6 years and I’m afraid it’s going to turn into that again. He said that he is going to play while I’m at work that’s fine but I just don’t want it to turn into what it did before.
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320Something that could be pretty interesting... Why don't you play together 🤔 that why you are sharing the time and having fun together.
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And if he gave you all of his time you wouldn't like that either. Suddenly you would be complaining about how you don't have enough alone time. A guy can never win... except by being himself and not letting your emotions control his actions.
The fact that you're asking how much you should LET him play shows me that your treating him more like a child than a husband.
If the problem is that he's neglecting his responsibilities, call him out on it.
If the problem is you want him to spend more time with you instead, let him know you feel neglected and want to do things together.
But if he's not neglecting you or his responsibilities as a husband, whether he's working out, playing video games, or reading goddamn War and Peace, what he does in his free time is his own business.
If he violates the rule, make the XBox disappear.
Make sure he never runs onto road unsupervised.
WTF. He is your husband. Dont treat him like your child.
He is a grown mab after all
Um I do I been with him for 8 years and trust me he has a child way before I got with him , but he needs to find someone that accepts him and love him mmm you might want to know the person before stating facts like that.
You may love him but by your words you clearly do not accept him for who he is. You want him to change. If he chooses to change that is one thing. But lets get something straight, you are in no position to "allow" or "let" him do anything.