How many hrs is a good enough to let your husband play on the xbox?

[Jjpayne]

I think you need to encourage him to do what he enjoys to do. I think he should also encourage you in what you like to do. But for both you and him there of course needs to be balance and yes, video games can be addicting but that does not mean its ok to not have someone play them at all either. There needs to be a balance.

Something that could be pretty interesting... Why don't you play together 🤔 that why you are sharing the time and having fun together. And that last picture belongs to this article, suggesting to play with him but a couple of other suggestions, actually a very good article for you to read!

[hahahmm]

Women are experts at trying to get dudes to do things that the woman wouldn't if roles were reversed. Anyhow, it's not your place to tell him how many hours. All you can do is make yourself the best wife on earth and he will then naturally have more time for you than he otherwise would.

And if he gave you all of his time you wouldn't like that either. Suddenly you would be complaining about how you don't have enough alone time. A guy can never win... except by being himself and not letting your emotions control his actions.

[jgokgotit]

It is not up to you how much he plays. He is not your property or slave. However, I do understand your concern. You need to have a serious talk with him about how you feel ignored when he plays the game excessively instead of spending time with you. Once that is done, it is up to him to listen or not. The only decision you have then is whether you will put up with it or divorce. However, the way your question is phrased is arrogant because it makes it sound like you control your husband.

[JackofSpades]

You sound like my mom kicking me and my brothers outside before the game box rotted our brain.

The fact that you're asking how much you should LET him play shows me that your treating him more like a child than a husband.

If the problem is that he's neglecting his responsibilities, call him out on it.

If the problem is you want him to spend more time with you instead, let him know you feel neglected and want to do things together.

But if he's not neglecting you or his responsibilities as a husband, whether he's working out, playing video games, or reading goddamn War and Peace, what he does in his free time is his own business.

[MzAsh]

He can play how much he wants, but it doesn’t mean you have to be with him if it’s going to take over his life. You can’t tell him what to do but you can absolutely set boundaries for what you won’t tolerate.

[WindAtMyBack]

Two hours a day max. Even that is too much, but at least it keeps it somewhat under control, and gives time for other things.

If he violates the rule, make the XBox disappear.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I see things this way, he should be able to play while your working but be able to give you his complete attention once you come home from work , no video games would come between me and a woman

[casserolie]

well, hate to say this but- if you try and can't fix the problem then do yourself a favor and leave

[Anonymous]

Did you also child proof the house? Put on child lock on internet and TV?

Make sure he never runs onto road unsupervised.

WTF. He is your husband. Dont treat him like your child.

[bklynbadboy1]

Wow! This has always blown my mind that a guy would want to play video games instead of being with his girl. When I played it was in my spare time when I was bored not all day everyday. I'm so shocked

[pigoat]

As long as he wants

He is a grown mab after all

[Hotscorpio3]

I used play that much before I got married but I cut back because I have more important things to do. What made me play less was my wife at the time took it upon herself to play with me. I then did the same for her and I got involved in an organization that takes a lot of my time now.

[JesterRose]

Sounds like he needs to find someone that actually accepts him and loves him.

[Shiver]

Bruh, stop acting like his mom. "Let" him play however much he thinks is reasonable. You're both adults.

[TallAnon]

Pretty sure you're not going to decide that 😜 Anything over 14 hours a day is probably a bit much.

[COMMODOREII]

Whats wrong with playing?

[Anonymous]

As much as he wants. He is an adult who can make his own choices.

[Lostguuy]

A schedule of some kind w1ouldnt hurt

[Anonymous]

10 minutes then it's shower and bedtime 🌙 😴 😌

[QuestionMark19]

As much as he wants. Don't control people.

[colin77]

That's between u both...

[6RareBit9]

How little do you do or want

[1031ent]

2 hours