Why do girls use guys for green cards and money?

Question

Say a guy falls in love with a girl on a vacation in Thailand. He takes her home and helps her imigrate to his country and marries. As soon as she gets an education or a job the bitch divorce the poor guy. Do you think it would be better if under such circumstances she would be legally obligated to move back to her own country the moment she divorces him?

Answer 1

Adam1978 | 496 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

What would that help? She would still gotten that free education you payed and can use that to get a good job in her home country. We can't trap them in bad relationships either. So the solution would be a more leveled world where there is very little gain to actually bother with this for her own gains.

Asker

9 d
Say jail instead of just sending her home then. I don't think using men should go unpunished.
Adam1978

9 d
And if she was together with a shitbag and already been punished? And what law did she brake that would cause the in jail time?
Asker

9 d
We should have laws against using men like that. That should be illegal and enough to get in jail to make sure they won't do it.
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Asker

9 d
If a girl has bad taste in partners thats her problem, but the person in this wuestion is a great partner
Adam1978

9 d
How do you prove intent and obviously this isn't a gender thing. Same should apply if a woman import a man and he does the same thing.
Asker

9 d
I don't know how to prove intent, but its obviously when a guy has been used. And yes the same should happen to men using women. But this question was about a man being used.
Adam1978

9 d
And you must also nail the opposite ie people who know about the time limit and switch just before its up. So she is sent back and another takes her place.
Asker

9 d
Thats for another question. This question was about a girl using a poor guys love out of malice for her own gain. Other scenarios are unrelevant.
Adam1978

9 d
Relationship don't always last so it's mot easy to see the difference between a long planned breakup and one that just end up happening. My tip is value the time with her when you have it rather then see it as a investment. Women are bad investments today, accept it as a fact. And you will know how much your willing to pay for their presence in your life.
Adam1978

9 d
Okay what if a local girl do the same? It should have the same punishment to exploit your fellow citizens as one that just joined.
Asker

9 d
Yeah, I think gold diggers can be punished the same way.
Adam1978

9 d
But you said used, there is so many ways you can use a person not only for personal wealth. I can't see how you would even write such a law. Without divorce always leading to one side ending up in jail. And we can't have laws that force you to choose between a bad relationship or prison.

Answer 2

Asker

Say jail instead of just sending her home then. I don't think using men should go unpunished.

Answer 3

Adam1978

And if she was together with a shitbag and already been punished? And what law did she brake that would cause the in jail time?

Answer 4

Asker

We should have laws against using men like that. That should be illegal and enough to get in jail to make sure they won't do it.

Answer 5

Asker

If a girl has bad taste in partners thats her problem, but the person in this wuestion is a great partner

Answer 6

Adam1978

How do you prove intent and obviously this isn't a gender thing. Same should apply if a woman import a man and he does the same thing.

Answer 7

Asker

I don't know how to prove intent, but its obviously when a guy has been used. And yes the same should happen to men using women. But this question was about a man being used.

Answer 8

Adam1978

And you must also nail the opposite ie people who know about the time limit and switch just before its up. So she is sent back and another takes her place.

Answer 9

Asker

Thats for another question. This question was about a girl using a poor guys love out of malice for her own gain. Other scenarios are unrelevant.

Answer 10

Adam1978

Relationship don't always last so it's mot easy to see the difference between a long planned breakup and one that just end up happening. My tip is value the time with her when you have it rather then see it as a investment. Women are bad investments today, accept it as a fact. And you will know how much your willing to pay for their presence in your life.

Answer 11

Adam1978

Okay what if a local girl do the same? It should have the same punishment to exploit your fellow citizens as one that just joined.

Answer 12

Asker

Yeah, I think gold diggers can be punished the same way.

Answer 13

Adam1978

But you said used, there is so many ways you can use a person not only for personal wealth. I can't see how you would even write such a law. Without divorce always leading to one side ending up in jail. And we can't have laws that force you to choose between a bad relationship or prison.

Answer 14

Darcia | 188 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Guys do it too. Especially the ones that call you on the phone from different countries. They ask to know your name, where you live, your social media handles, I had a guy tell me his Instagram/phone number and he wanted me to start calling, texting, and messaging him on Instagram. It was the weirdest thing.

Answer 15

SphynxUK | 283 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Who falls in love with someone when abroad ‘just like that’ and doesn’t take things slow and be cautious?

Answer 16

slatyb | 5.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Who's to say that her affection wasn't genuine when they married? And what makes him "the poor guy?" Ending a childless marriage is not that difficult.

Asker

9 d
If it was genuine she would have stayed with him. He is the poor guy because she used him.
slatyb

9 d
People get divorced all the time for many reasons. Maybe that was her plan all along. Maybe not. Who can say?

Answer 17

Asker

If it was genuine she would have stayed with him. He is the poor guy because she used him.

Answer 18

slatyb

People get divorced all the time for many reasons. Maybe that was her plan all along. Maybe not. Who can say?

Answer 19

Agape93 | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Because to be blunt, y’all keep falling for greedy chicks pretending to like you.

Answer 20

Iron_Man | 10.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

The ones that do that’s very sad

Asker

9 d
Yeah, she should have stayed with him

Answer 21

Asker

Yeah, she should have stayed with him

Answer 22

Anonymous

What else do you have to offer?

Asker

9 d
True love, I earn enough she does not have to work, great personality, great looks, so more or less anything a girl could want
Opinion Owner

9 d
I love you then
Kelly6

9 d
That’s funny
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Asker

9 d
Thanks, sadly my ex disagrees. Otherwise she would not have been my ex.

Answer 23

Asker

True love, I earn enough she does not have to work, great personality, great looks, so more or less anything a girl could want

Answer 24

Opinion Owner

I love you then

Answer 25

Kelly6

That’s funny

Answer 26

Asker

Thanks, sadly my ex disagrees. Otherwise she would not have been my ex.

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