How bad is it if someone talks about being in love with someone else and not you while dating you?

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He was two faced af and kept saying how he loved her, not me, and I can only assume something was going on between them. But he was using me because he wanted her...

She ended up being narcissistic and terrible to him obviously. Sigh.

Answer 1

DrunkAss

Yoda

Why did you continue dating this person? I figure he must have been charming as hell if he's talking your ear off about loving some other girl on your dates and you stick around.

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eileen_ruth

1 y
He was talking to his friend about it and the friend told me

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DrunkAss

1 y
That's so complicated. Things got a lot simpler to me after and there are no friends of friends telling me stuff. The girl just says what she thinks to me and I say what I think. But that's bad. That's not gonna work as you probably already know.

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eileen_ruth

1 y
Yeah he also talked about me to everyone complaining and made everyone hate me after it was over.

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DrunkAss

1 y
It sometimes seems like a miracle to me that we continue to exist. We thrive on all this information and expectations about how the world works, and how to navigate it, and we pass it on from generation to generation. But it's like a reset button is pushed every time we die, every time a new baby is born, and there's so much work -- a lifetime of work and experience -- to get us just back to "okay". Then we repeat and repeat -- complete reset of information and then slowly try to gain it back... then reset again.

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Answer 2

eileen_ruth

He was talking to his friend about it and the friend told me

Answer 3

DrunkAss

That's so complicated. Things got a lot simpler to me after and there are no friends of friends telling me stuff. The girl just says what she thinks to me and I say what I think. But that's bad. That's not gonna work as you probably already know.

Answer 4

eileen_ruth

Yeah he also talked about me to everyone complaining and made everyone hate me after it was over.

Answer 5

DrunkAss

It sometimes seems like a miracle to me that we continue to exist. We thrive on all this information and expectations about how the world works, and how to navigate it, and we pass it on from generation to generation. But it's like a reset button is pushed every time we die, every time a new baby is born, and there's so much work -- a lifetime of work and experience -- to get us just back to "okay". Then we repeat and repeat -- complete reset of information and then slowly try to gain it back... then reset again.

Answer 6

Mijopapi215

Xper 4

That is usually how it goes but for him to treat you that way shows that he would not be good for you in the long run right?

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Answer 7

pinudown

Xper 5

Pretty bad. Why are you even dating him.

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pinudown

1 y
You should stay away from some people or they will be the cause to your destruction

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eileen_ruth

1 y
It ended 2 years ago

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pinudown

1 y
Oh lol. I'm guessing he is a friend of you now.

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Answer 8

pinudown

You should stay away from some people or they will be the cause to your destruction

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eileen_ruth

It ended 2 years ago

Answer 10

pinudown

Oh lol. I'm guessing he is a friend of you now.

How bad is it if someone talks about being in love with someone else and not you while dating you?

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