During the first date, she didn't hesitate to drink a lot and ended up being drunk. What is your opinion on this?

Question

What is your opinion?

She trust the guy won't take advantage of her

She just want to have fun and not fond of overthinking

She is probably alcoholic person

Something else ( post pls)

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GirlGuy

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1 mo

Thank you for your responds everyone.
Perhaps i should put more detail.
Yeah , i drink a lot too , we hang out at 2 different bar, just drinking , eat, talk , then we go to karaoke place to sing and drink again.
Nothing happened.
I had enough money for that night but she insist to split the bill.

1 mo

I drink with my guy friends sometimes , but i never drink so much like that night, and this is my first time drinking with a girl too.
If you ask me why i am drinking so much that night? it is because after after leaving first bar , we walked around until i sober , then she said ( in joking manner) that i am boring when i am sober , then i said to her lets find another bar and drink more.

Answer 1

silvermoon84 | 363 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Well, I’m not going to say it’s a red flag, but it sounds like she’s a party girl. If you’re okay with that cool but I’d think twice if you’re looking for something more serious. With that being said, that was really nice of her to offer to split the bill.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had nights when I was younger where I got drunk but never on dates.

Answer 2

CurlyGirl42 | 128 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

There could be so many reasons. If you liked the date, go on another one and don't drink on that one to see how that is. If she wants to get drunk on every date I would start worrying. It is more limited how much you show of yourself when drunk, so better to get to know each other for real sober.

Answer 3

AdithyaR | 328 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

I wouldn't judge her for it at all cause it's her choice to drink. But as someone who doesn't drink at all, I'd be super uncomfortable in that situation and it'll be a turn off for me. I'd want to have a normal conversation in the first date and get to know the person.

Answer 4

MountAverage | 426 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Sounds like fun.

Inquisitive3

1 mo
Haha this made me laugh, while everyone else is so serious about it.
MountAverage

1 mo
@Inquisitive3 Yeah, but most other people here are judgmental idiots who think everyone should live this "pure" and abstinent life. Stuck up weirdos. Haha

Answer 5

Inquisitive3

Haha this made me laugh, while everyone else is so serious about it.

Answer 6

MountAverage

@Inquisitive3 Yeah, but most other people here are judgmental idiots who think everyone should live this "pure" and abstinent life. Stuck up weirdos. Haha

Answer 7

Wytdrgn

Xper 4

That depends on the type of drunk she is. If she can walk and talk it's fine by me. I only drink to get hammered.
But if I have to drag her to the car afterwards then she's getting dumped at the curb in front of her place. I won't acknowledge her existence. And she gets a bad Yelp.

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SphynxUK | 340 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I wouldn’t drink on a first date. I’d rather have a coffee.
Maybe you both felt the need for drink for some courage?
Is that how you want things to move forward?

Asker

1 mo
I drink with my guy friends sometimes , but i never drink so much like that night, and this is my first time drinking with a girl too.
If you ask me why i am drinking so much that night? it is because after after leaving first bar , we walked around until i sober , then she said ( in joking manner) that i am boring when i am sober , then i said her lets find another bar and drink more.
Is that how you want things to move forward? Maybe , I really like her, she is really fun person to hang out , and also hilarious.

Answer 9

Asker

I drink with my guy friends sometimes , but i never drink so much like that night, and this is my first time drinking with a girl too.
If you ask me why i am drinking so much that night? it is because after after leaving first bar , we walked around until i sober , then she said ( in joking manner) that i am boring when i am sober , then i said her lets find another bar and drink more.
Is that how you want things to move forward? Maybe , I really like her, she is really fun person to hang out , and also hilarious.

Answer 10

SlightlyEccentric

Xper 5

If she decides to get drunk on a first date, then it will be our last date.

Answer 11

pigoat | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

She is not alcoholic till she does it like 10 more times in a row

Answer 12

LemiaOfTheCodes | 131 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

My drinking helps her cope with being shy or nervious.

Answer 13

Zooooooooom

Xper 5

She trusts that the guy won't take advantage of her and She just want to have fun and not fond of overthinking... It can be out nervousness as well or she has an " I DON'T CARE" attitude !!

Answer 14

yofuknutz | 55 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

She is a walking psychopath with an addiction personality disorder run

Answer 15

bulletbob555 | 310 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Should turn and go the other way but sometimes overlooking it seems to be ok. Generally you end up regretting ignoring it

Answer 16

stuntbrain | 502 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Not good. There's only a very few acceptable occasions

Answer 17

Alyssa11 | 322 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

This is a really big red flag for me. It speaks a lot - way more than she probably would’ve spoken on the date.

Answer 18

portlandjason

Xper 2

she's an alcoholic who drinks her problems away instead of dealing with them, leave her to do that and find someone who doesn't have problems

Answer 19

Hogwheels | 153 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

I don't care how nervous she is, if alcohol was where she turned to, that is a sign of alcohol dependency.

Answer 20

KrakenAttackin | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

If she got wasted with me on a first date than she has done this 100 times before.

Answer 21

msc545 | 1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

She either has very bad judgment, or she is an alcoholic or both. Be cautious.

Answer 22

Anonymous

Could be that she was very nervous or trusted you that much

Answer 23

Noodle_fan | 251 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

She "probably" has social anxiety, and need alcohol help to deal with it.
For other possibilty , i know some friends who drink often because their job is too stressful.

Answer 24

Anonymous

She has a wtf attitude. It’s not that she trusts you, nuh uh. A part of her doesn’t care what happens. She’s a disaster

SlightlyEccentric

1 mo
Probably best to give her the leper treatment
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Update: You’ve got yourself a party girl, and she prolly has done some wild, shameless things in her days.
Opinion Owner

1 mo
That’s my 1st impression of her as this being your very 1st date
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Opinion Owner

1 mo
It be different if I she was drunk out with close friends and you met that way, exchanged numbers, and acknowledged the fact after she sobered up that she’d like to go out on a date with you as her sober self to get to know one another better.
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Because people are different when they’re sober, they’re more themselves, and if she constantly has to drink to have a good time, she might be an alcoholic and has some insecurity issues
Opinion Owner

1 mo
It’s up to you if you’re about that life
Opinion Owner

1 mo
@SlightlyEccentric harshhhh 😂

Answer 25

SlightlyEccentric

Probably best to give her the leper treatment

Answer 26

Opinion Owner

Update: You’ve got yourself a party girl, and she prolly has done some wild, shameless things in her days.

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

That’s my 1st impression of her as this being your very 1st date

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

It be different if I she was drunk out with close friends and you met that way, exchanged numbers, and acknowledged the fact after she sobered up that she’d like to go out on a date with you as her sober self to get to know one another better.

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

Because people are different when they’re sober, they’re more themselves, and if she constantly has to drink to have a good time, she might be an alcoholic and has some insecurity issues

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

It’s up to you if you’re about that life

Answer 31

Opinion Owner

@SlightlyEccentric harshhhh 😂

Answer 32

Trooper205 | 305 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

What I'd think is that She's kind of Irresponsible.

(Or the Beer was TOO GOOD)

Answer 33

tamtampro

Xper 3

Probably wanna get laid

pie-filler

1 mo
He wasted the chance lol

Answer 34

pie-filler

He wasted the chance lol

Answer 35

Jamie05rhs | 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

She has a serious problem.

Answer 36

HoremoNial

Xper 1

She probably needed the alcohol out of nervousness, or perhaps she accidentally had too much.

Answer 37

banana75

Xper 6

she's a good guy-girlfriend

Answer 38

Everglow5

Xper 5

This is probably not a good sign

Answer 39

not329446 | 58 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

Severe lack of self respect.

Answer 40

locutus9999 | 140 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

question to clarify... who paid all that?

Answer 41

David_Bayer | 183 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

I would like that. Drinking buddy is a good buddy.

Answer 42

lightbulb27 | 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

my opinion is run when I see drugs.

SlightlyEccentric

1 mo
No, don't run, sprint. Get out of there like she is a bomb 3 seconds away from exploding.

Answer 43

SlightlyEccentric

No, don't run, sprint. Get out of there like she is a bomb 3 seconds away from exploding.

Answer 44

Whitemeatchicken

Xper 3

Classless.

Arivor

1 mo
Damn, you are so mean! 🤣 Let me tell you a story about this one new co-worker of mine that I had long ago. She was very cute and very into me and it being Friday, I invited her to hang with me and go club jumping. Granted, I had some party favors to keep things going throughout the night... Oh, did I forget to mention she was the Sheriffs Daughter from our neighboring county? Yeah, that does make things a bit more interesting. Well Miss Snufflelugalous there could have put Dyson to shame... I mean damn girl! Anyway, I really wasn't noticing that she was drinking enough vodka to wake up with a Russian accent in the morning. So, we are sitting up close to the band, and she was sitting on my lap, and we ended up with a damn spotlight pointed at us, with the lead singer asking everyone what they thought we would be doing latter on. Everyone's like "Get a room already!" Since the club was in a hotel, we did just that... we did the deed, and then I swear to god I ended up holding her hair out of her face for the rest of the night! Then it was time to take her home to her Daddy! I took her home watched her go through her door and I quickly left… I never saw the man, I never want to see that man and yet on Monday... I'm telling everyone that nothing happened, and she walks in telling everyone she woke up with her panties on backwards... 🤦‍♂️
Whitemeatchicken

1 mo
@Arivor sir I am a lady of morals. I do not get drunk normally. I do like a drink from time to time. However,‘I find it classless to embarrass yourself due to drunkenness.

Answer 45

Arivor

Damn, you are so mean! 🤣 Let me tell you a story about this one new co-worker of mine that I had long ago. She was very cute and very into me and it being Friday, I invited her to hang with me and go club jumping. Granted, I had some party favors to keep things going throughout the night... Oh, did I forget to mention she was the Sheriffs Daughter from our neighboring county? Yeah, that does make things a bit more interesting. Well Miss Snufflelugalous there could have put Dyson to shame... I mean damn girl! Anyway, I really wasn't noticing that she was drinking enough vodka to wake up with a Russian accent in the morning. So, we are sitting up close to the band, and she was sitting on my lap, and we ended up with a damn spotlight pointed at us, with the lead singer asking everyone what they thought we would be doing latter on. Everyone's like "Get a room already!" Since the club was in a hotel, we did just that... we did the deed, and then I swear to god I ended up holding her hair out of her face for the rest of the night! Then it was time to take her home to her Daddy! I took her home watched her go through her door and I quickly left… I never saw the man, I never want to see that man and yet on Monday... I'm telling everyone that nothing happened, and she walks in telling everyone she woke up with her panties on backwards... 🤦‍♂️

Answer 46

Whitemeatchicken

@Arivor sir I am a lady of morals. I do not get drunk normally. I do like a drink from time to time. However,‘I find it classless to embarrass yourself due to drunkenness.

Answer 47

Bananaman177

Guru

She is a nasty whore, full stop.

Answer 48

Anonymous

She prolly wants to bang...

Answer 49

CapitalismFailed

Xper 5

All of the above.

Answer 50

Anonymous

She was probably nervous

Answer 51

JEndigoBleue

Xper 4

She's free.

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