In your lifetime, how many guys/girls have you been unable to get off your mind for a long period of time because you were so into him/her?

[HiveBee]

I voted 6. Had plenty of crushes in my life. Never got with any of them cuz I felt like i was a worthless sack of crap and never imagined any of them could possibly ever like me.

Though i did find out many many years later that at that time a couple did actually have crushes on me too! Crazy.

Kinda gives some self esteem back to me when I learned that shit lol. Started thinking maybe I'm not as worthless a sack of shit I had imagined.

[NitroExpress]

Just the one, I haven't fallen in love again since.

I have gotten over her though, she's changed a lot for the worse.

[Sarahr123]

Just one obviously and that’s boyfriend who I have been with since I was 15. If we break up lool I won’t be into anyone that much and that’s a relief tbh. Love can hurt like a bitch but it only happens once. The rest is just compromise...

[DizzyDesii]

Only two... Bo and Tev. But they only cross my mind when i’m single. I liked Bo since 2001 lol and Tev since 2006. Literally my longest crushes ever because they seemed mutual but one of us moved away

[Josh4206]

There was this teacher in junior high i had that with, and this girl whos mom is friends with my mom so we went over there a lot

[Sia_nee]

Opps hit the wrong button.

One, that'd be my first love. Took me a long time to get over him. These days it doesn't take me more than a couple of days to get over someone.

[answerseeker127]

I mean, I'd say 4 or 5. Mostly girls I dated. and that's like, constantly thinking about for longer than a month or so.

[Shirin_Esfa]

It has happened to me twice and it was so hard, since it took me months to get over them. Basically I needed to find someone new in order to be able to forget. Before that, it was always coming up again...:(

[Pete671]

G, at age 57 that's less than two per decade lol,,,

[Egirl28]

One and its 6 years and counting