Wow long list of reasons! Appreciate the effort haha :)
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Would time be able to change his mind?
Yes, this is possiile, maybe he's not ready yet to try again, does not want to do it too soon, it's is possible he's recharing energy till he can get involved like that, a a later time
Makes sense!! Is there anything in particular that i can do?
You could follow up with the question, what is it that he would like RIGHT NOW, try to make emphasis on that, if he can open up about what he would like to be with you, then you can ask yourself if that can work for you, and for how long too... this is about timing, if it works for you, what he wants at the moment, then you do not have to give up just yet on him.
Glad to share
Update: 5 months isn't enough to recover from a 11 years relationship... Then this is the reason.
How much time would you say?
Depends is he doing the right things to get over her, depends on him how emotional is he... And the reason of breaking up
Thats what i have been trying really hard to do. I never bring it up and constantly tell him i understand (even when i dont really)
It’s like drinking too much vodka and having a real real bad hangover! You even smell vodka for a long time afterwards and you get sick. You may like to drink, and want to drink again in the future, but right now it’s just not attractive to you. I’d suggest that you be a good friend if he means that much too you. Being available if he changes his mind will put you at the top of the list. But you may have to wait and you may not get selected if he decides to date again... it’s a gamble
Thats a great comparison! I will continue to be his friend for sure but i won't be waiting around. If he is single i shouldn't have to miss out on potential great connections because i stay committed to someone who isn't committed to me! :)
Very true and wide
Was it because of anything they did or purely you?
Me It’s my friend that’s a girl got mad at me cus she said I could look so much better if I put the slightest effort in my appearance
Oh... thats not very kind
Yea but she was kinda right though she said I was pretty decent looking but I could look better if I weren’t so lazy
But i feel like its a pretty reasonable time ro get over that. Ofcourse everyone has their own pace but generally speaking it should be long enough
Perhaps after 11 years he now wants some fun. Not a solid serious relationship. Could not blame him for that.
Yeah i don't either. I just don't wanna be strung along
I don't understand your problem then. You say he doest want a relationship and neither do you. That sounds like a good match.
you're all entitled fucking skanks, lie about everything, even shit like how many guys have pipped you down, women are nasty af, have no self respect, and only really love men that are attractive, these guys can literally cheat on them anf convince them to have a threesome, and theyll do it, just saw a 20 yo girl saying this, women are actually disgusting
Im really sorry that this is how you think. Thats sad
Its the truthHow many sexual partners does the average college girl have? ↗