Girls, In your own words what do you mean when you say you want a guy that makes you feel “safe”? (Page 2)
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To feel protected❤
Taken care of... the best feeling in the world. Your emotional needs are met. This involves trust. Could be to feel protected from harm.
Have you ever been with a guy who had a bunch of other red flags but you overlooked them because he gives you this safe feeling?
Yes I have. I loved living on the edge but it isn't healthy. As all those red flags become bigger issues later on. I guess it's the thrill, the excitement & never being bored. You learn and you live if you are lucky.
When I say this I mean
1. protect me from physical harm
2. be reliable
3 make me feel safe in our relationship by being committed
5. not harm me (verbally and physically)
is this a top desirable trait for you in a guy?
that we'd be walking down the street and if another guy starts to hassle us, he could kill him if he wanted to
I wanna be protected physically when needed, and emotionally wise I wanna be able to be myself around him without being judged.
A number of things.
-i want a guy who ik will protect me from physical harm
- I want a guy who makes me feel safe emotionally, like he'd never judge
-I want a guy who makes me feel secure. Like ik he's not going anywhere.
Stuff like that
To me it's emotional security. That i would have someone i can depend on when things get tough and i feel alone.
I feel I can be myself and not be judged around them.
One who has a backbone and won't hide behind us. One who remembers he has a dick and says stop to bs
Like he has my back and I know he won’t hurt me.
Protected
I know of women who overlook so many red flags but they stay just because of this reason
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