OK, so I met this guy on chatroulette...and I know what you're thinking...he's probably a creep-o...but I got to know him, and he's an amazing guy! we are absolutely perfect for each other...its just he lives across the country. he asked me to be his girlfriend, but I just don't know if I could do this. who knows, he could be a major creep. but he's totally not! ahhh! I like him so much! D: what should I do? and what do y'all think about online dating?
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Honey, you did not get to know him. You talked with a stranger on-line. He could have told you anything he wanted to and you bought it. He could be older, a felon (for God knows what), and just playing you.
What purpose does he have to ask you to be his girlfriend when you haven't met and you live across the country from each other? You surely aren't planning on going there? Crazy idea. If he wants to meet you, let him come meet you. And stay in a motel, you do not want a stranger in your home. No, you do not.
On line dating is fine, as long as you use common sense and the utmost safety precautions.
And remember, these people ARE strangers. You must be careful. Like it or not, there are so many people who want to rip you off & hurt you, and they are charming.1