What makes a good dating profile? Does every guy deal with girl's who wants your money or OF? How do you get good matches instead of bot and scammers?

[Gwenhwyfar]

You need to convey confidence in your initial approach. Half of being hot is being able to project a confident demeanor. Get one of your female friends to take a profile pic of you that she would find hot.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

You get real girls in real life, not online

[RealMarek]

Online dating is a numbers game in some ways. You’re getting matches and it sounds like you are more articulate than a lot of men on dating sites. That is a good start. The more matches you get, the more likely you will get credible responses, so if you haven’t done so research what kinds of pictures get the most attention, advice on setting up your profile, etc.

One difficulty is that the online dating market for people in their 20s is in favor of women. The competition is fierce. Dating sites have data showing that young women are much more selective than young men, resulting in a lot of young men without matches and a few top-tier men who can play the field. This imbalance is most pronounced on hook-up sites like Tinder but it will be felt on any online dating site. However, at some point when you are in your 30s the tables will turn. Single middle-aged men who are emotionally stable, able to hold down work, and in reasonably good shape are not easy to find.

I think it makes sense to keep your dating profile but if you can get involved in community organizations, volunteer work, etc. where you can meet other people it might help.

Also, women can sniff out desperation easily and they find it to be a huge turn-off because it signals low status. If you can be open to a relationship but less frustrated about not having one, your odds improve a lot. If you don’t already, make sure you put most of your focus into exercise, increasing your skills for your career, hobbies (not video games), and community presence - in other words, try to level up your status.