How to meet women if you're an extroverted introvert?

Question

I struggle with wanting to date a woman who'll actually love me instead of what they want me to spend on them but when you don't get out much its hard and you don't always see all the red flags that are there , so I just want to know where I could find like minded women to date

Answer 1

Anonymous

If you haven’t already, why not try a dating app? Finding like-minded individuals is the luck of the draw regardless, like even meeting in person. At least on an app you can’t get a bit of background about them before talking.

fml97

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I do use them but its usually just bots or worst people who accidentally right swipe on me
Opinion Owner

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I’d you don’t mind me asking, which ones do you use? I met my current boyfriend on Hily and I really like the app. It was my first time trying one and there’s a lot of flexibility with it, in my opinion.
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fml97

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I've used hily, bumble , tinder , meet me , pof , hinge, and even sites but its always just bots, accidental matches , or just nothing, I've tested a theory of how fast can a woman get a real person as a match and how fast a man could get a real person match , and for guys its bot city but for woman its usually all real people
fml97

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I hope that didn't come off bad was just letting you know what I've tried
Opinion Owner

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No that wasn’t bad at all. Have you tried a membership? I didn’t but I heard that it helps you meet actual people, not bots. A few women at my job paid for POF and they all had success, but then again that’s only 3 women lol.
fml97

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A buddy of mine has done that before on a few of the apps I mentioned and a week later his account was hacked and switched to a female account by someone who was trying to scam guys for money using his verified profile with that membership so it had high visibility to everyone
Opinion Owner

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Oh wow! That would definitely make me leery of paying on dating sites as well. Hmm. What about speed dating? That option is a bit daring but my best friend did it back in 2019 and said it was so much fun!
fml97

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Where do you even go to do that?
Opinion Owner

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You may have to look it up. We’re in SoCal and it seems like those were all over the place lol. I say “were” because I don't know how hard covid hit those sort of businesses or if they found a work-around for like virtual speed dating or something.
fml97

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Well I'll have to look it up then
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You definitely should! Good luck if you find a place and decide to do it; maybe drag a friend along if you’re leery about going alone lol
fml97

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Doubt anyone would go with me but I'll definitely try it if I luck out and find one

Answer 2

fml97

I do use them but its usually just bots or worst people who accidentally right swipe on me

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

I’d you don’t mind me asking, which ones do you use? I met my current boyfriend on Hily and I really like the app. It was my first time trying one and there’s a lot of flexibility with it, in my opinion.

Answer 4

Opinion Owner

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Answer 5

fml97

I've used hily, bumble , tinder , meet me , pof , hinge, and even sites but its always just bots, accidental matches , or just nothing, I've tested a theory of how fast can a woman get a real person as a match and how fast a man could get a real person match , and for guys its bot city but for woman its usually all real people

Answer 6

fml97

I hope that didn't come off bad was just letting you know what I've tried

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

No that wasn’t bad at all. Have you tried a membership? I didn’t but I heard that it helps you meet actual people, not bots. A few women at my job paid for POF and they all had success, but then again that’s only 3 women lol.

Answer 8

fml97

A buddy of mine has done that before on a few of the apps I mentioned and a week later his account was hacked and switched to a female account by someone who was trying to scam guys for money using his verified profile with that membership so it had high visibility to everyone

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

Oh wow! That would definitely make me leery of paying on dating sites as well. Hmm. What about speed dating? That option is a bit daring but my best friend did it back in 2019 and said it was so much fun!

Answer 10

fml97

Where do you even go to do that?

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

You may have to look it up. We’re in SoCal and it seems like those were all over the place lol. I say “were” because I don't know how hard covid hit those sort of businesses or if they found a work-around for like virtual speed dating or something.

Answer 12

fml97

Well I'll have to look it up then

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

You definitely should! Good luck if you find a place and decide to do it; maybe drag a friend along if you’re leery about going alone lol

Answer 14

fml97

Doubt anyone would go with me but I'll definitely try it if I luck out and find one

Answer 15

Anonymous

Dating sites if you don't go out much.

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