Girl seems like she is keeping me around for the entertainment, this could be true or false but what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been going on dates with this girl for over a month now. I’ve realized I want a relationship with her but didn’t say anything yet since it’s still early. We’ve had about 4 official dates and last one ending up sleeping together. We have both expressed that we like each other and that we aren’t talking to anyone else. Obviously a good thing. But now it seems extremely hard to go out again. Either she will say yes then cancel or say like my friends are going on this weekend but I don’t know that night yet. Doesn’t say we can do this night or suggest anything else. I’m kinda stuck now in even I should still pursue or just distance myself. I need some advice. Both sides would be good. If I do keep pursuing, how should I? If I do distance myself, how do I detach myself emotion?

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[HollyK21]

Yeah, if you’ve tried repeatedly to invite her out and she’s acting this way then I’d fall back. You don’t have to write her off but her actions do send a message. It shows either disinterest or distraction, and someone else could quite possibly have her attention, which in that case there’s not much you can do. Regardless though, let her reach out to you and invite you somewhere. You’ve done more than your part.

[sheikalana]

I would suggest distancing yourself for a while and see if she contacts you back. From my personal experience when I act like that means I'm not 100% interested.

[msbrightness]

Very very possible. Women are socialised to consider it not just permisible but even desired to milk men.
Find out what it is you desire and go with that. When it's love it feels right, not like milking.