Which person would you rather date?

[Xitomyth]

Not sure how you came up with these specific two, but I'll take intelligent and mean any day. I have thick skin, so to speak, and I'm a engineer, problem solving is my thing and requires research and learning new things to design properly, so if she can help in that, I'm all for it. Besides, just because she's mean doesn't mean she doesn't care, it just means she's not nice for some reason, not necessarily a good reason, but a reason none the less. I can only handle so much dumb, before it grates on me. I can handle mean, I'm used to it honestly, but I really just don't have time for dumb. I need someone who can handle herself and her problems, not someone I need to teach everything to, especially multiple times.

[zeitgeist057]

Honestly, I'm making the carefree yet intelligent choice, and holding out for the carefree and intelligent person.

I would totally hang out with either one, but I prefer the carefree and dumb person to hang out with because being mean is not cool and so it's hard to have respect for someone who is like that. I also think it's good to hang out with someone who is mean though because maybe they just need a little extra love? Not saying you can change them, but you can at least show them life doesn't have to be like that.

[modelUN242]

Hmm, maybe intelligent and mean but I could try to tame their meanness lol?

[Flower7]

I would have more fun with the carefree and dumb person.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are a decent person, you have more choices than this. I don't want to date a dumb girl and I don't want to date a mean girl. My girlfriend is intelligent AND she is a sweet and gentle soul.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I would choose neither...

[MCheetah]

If ONLY given these two choices, then Intelligent and Mean, because at least then I could relate to her on the intelligence part. And being intelligent is probably WHY she's mean; I can certainly understand when you're a smart person living in a world of idiots who now have social media and24/7 internet access. I am neither carefree or dumb though, so I'd have nothing in common with that one.

Ideally, I'd prefer intelligent and compassionate, but I realize the two are almost contradictory.

[Anonymous]

That is so much hard to answer it. I had meet both and pretty sure choosing either is not a good choice. I will pass for it. Rather wait for option C that do not have dumb or mean in it.

The reason? Because the dumb one are easily fooled where at one time she showed her boobs to other peoples due to innocent act by the guy.

The mean? Well they emotion kinda hard to deal with it. They have the feeling of high and mighty. Even when they are officially dating she still mean AF.

[GnatSocks]

Wait, actually mean or like playful mean? Because we could do things like go to a coffee shop and make fun of the passers by to each other (I've done it before, 10/10 would recommend), but if she's like actually mean, it's different.

[slatyb]

Happily there are other possibilities, like beautiful, intelligent, and sweet. That's what I married.

[Raskad]

Not exactly very open choices but if you had a gun to my head I'd say the carefree but dumb. A mean person is, well.. mean. Not looking to date a bitch.

[Laciandmaci]

Neither, someone who is not dumb (I prefer a degree), and someone who is not mean!

[Kaneki05]

Oh for sure mean and intelligent. Carefree and dumb is just a pain.

[Rippersavage]

I'd rather be with an intelligent woman but the mean part is a dealbreaker... so I'll just go with the carefree & dumb girl

[Unit1]

Nah, I'll pass. Tonight I'll have sex with my hands and pillows.

[Just_call_me_Levi]

As important as intelligence is, "mean" and close minded get a NO for me... Shame too, smug and witty is a huge turn on for me. 😏

[Steve1071]

Given the choices of the above I’d rather be with a dumb woman who is content and happy than be with a smart woman who always has a nasty disposition.

[clampfan101]

Being dumb could be made up for with wisdom.
Being mean can’t be made up for.

[Anonymous]

Carefree and dumb everytime! Why the fuck would I date a mean girl? Who cares if she's intelligent? That's not really a reason to date her.

[nelly83]

many folks don't realize how much of a burden it is to stay married to someone who is dumb. My father married a dumb woman, trust DO NOT DO IT.

[janæquinn]

I'd rather date with the intelligent one. I am into the intelligent men with my body and soul.

[Wise4myage]

Mean people suck balls, so Id choose carefree and dumb out of those two choices.

[dreamstar72]

Dumb is easier to help, mean is harder to help

[snackthatsmilesback]

I guess intelligent and mean.