Where are all the nice guys?

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BarryLiverstone | 698 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Nice guys are a bit of a myth tbh. A better question you may want to ask if where are single guys who are responsible and try to live consistent lives. Keep in mind everyone (male and female) is a mix and nice and naughty; some more than others.

But even if you found a secret island filled with nothing but nice guys, you may not find a suitable match. That’s because those guys may not be ready to meet your needs, match your goals, and be compatible with your personality. I could go on but what I’ll ask is what is your list of needs in a guy?

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Answer 2

ChrisMaster69 | 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Do you mean online, on GaG or n real life?

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I mean GaG could be easily grouped as online, but nonspecific, just general all round question
ChrisMaster69

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I kept GaG separate as it has its own level of toxicity lol.

In real, a lot have been stuck at home due to lockdown.

Online, it’s always hard finding someone that is nice and not simply looking for sex
Asker

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All you have said is very true, especially about GaG

Although we've been out of lockdown for months here
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ChrisMaster69

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Just lifting here, hoping to get back out and meet real people.

In real a lot I think comes down to where you meet people, age, maturity and social economic thing.

Both guys and girls can prove to be complete twats even though when we first meet them they seemed nice,

I think it’s not just where are all the nice guys (& girls) but also where are those that keep being nice.
Asker

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Sage words my friend
ChrisMaster69

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Lol, thanks, good luck on your hunt for a nice person
Asker

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Thank you

Answer 3

Asker

I mean GaG could be easily grouped as online, but nonspecific, just general all round question

Answer 4

ChrisMaster69

I kept GaG separate as it has its own level of toxicity lol.

In real, a lot have been stuck at home due to lockdown.

Online, it’s always hard finding someone that is nice and not simply looking for sex

Answer 5

Asker

All you have said is very true, especially about GaG

Although we've been out of lockdown for months here

Answer 6

ChrisMaster69

Just lifting here, hoping to get back out and meet real people.

In real a lot I think comes down to where you meet people, age, maturity and social economic thing.

Both guys and girls can prove to be complete twats even though when we first meet them they seemed nice,

I think it’s not just where are all the nice guys (& girls) but also where are those that keep being nice.

Answer 7

Asker

Sage words my friend

Answer 8

ChrisMaster69

Lol, thanks, good luck on your hunt for a nice person

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Asker

Thank you

Answer 10

Siren777 | 709 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

They are around. They're in your friend circle. The ones you over look and don't want. The ones that have been crushing on you for years and you're not interested. The bestie you would never date as you tell everyone..."eeewww, what no he is like a brother to me" haha. The guys who go out of their way to help you in school, college or even work who you never think much around. A neighbor, a friend or even a friend of a friend who sees you often and are too shy to approach you.

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jerdanro

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Great answer. Even when they aren't too shy to approach, they are the ones who get shot down. Most women are attracted to high value "alpha" men. Some are kind, but they have no need to be because they are in demand. The same goes for "hot" women and those who think they are.
Siren777

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@jerdanro I've only experienced kindness with high value men. I beg to differ in that regard but other than that I agree with what you have to say.
jerdanro

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I know what you mean. A truly high-value man is kind. What I mean is some men who are perceived as high value for their external appearance.

Answer 11

jerdanro

Great answer. Even when they aren't too shy to approach, they are the ones who get shot down. Most women are attracted to high value "alpha" men. Some are kind, but they have no need to be because they are in demand. The same goes for "hot" women and those who think they are.

Answer 12

Siren777

@jerdanro I've only experienced kindness with high value men. I beg to differ in that regard but other than that I agree with what you have to say.

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jerdanro

I know what you mean. A truly high-value man is kind. What I mean is some men who are perceived as high value for their external appearance.

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LZPanzer | 163 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Ok another no context question.

Good men are all over. They tend to not be visible because they are out doing there own things, not caring how others pecieve them.

The bad boys are very visible, only caring about there public image. Usually has a girl wrapped around them and another 10 girls following behind.

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beldath | 192 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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They're either taken, or being taken for granted. .
I'm a nice guy, but been single three years. There don't seem to be any nice single women around here.

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FilmGuy93 | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

A lot of guys who used to be nice have become embittered by being treated poorly by women. I think they just wake up one day and snap. It sucks and it's not fair to the women who actually want to treat men with respect, but it really is a reaction to how the other women in his life have treated him.

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Answer 17

GnatSocks

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If you have a brother, ask him to find you someone to date.

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Ya know, I wish I did

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Asker

Ya know, I wish I did

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bamesjond0069 | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

The nice loser guys are sitting home and crying.

The nice attractive guys are going for nice attractive girls. Maybe you aren't as nice or attractive as you think.

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Asker

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Honestly, did I claim to be.
bamesjond0069

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No. But you asked where they are. So obviously not hanging around with you.
Asker

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Oof that's actually a good comeback. Kudos

Answer 20

Asker

Honestly, did I claim to be.

Answer 21

bamesjond0069

No. But you asked where they are. So obviously not hanging around with you.

Answer 22

Asker

Oof that's actually a good comeback. Kudos

Answer 23

IHateBeingaMan | 981 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

you may say you want a nice guy, women probably deep inside want to be attracted to a nice guy, but their biology won't allow it, only thing nice guys get from women is the friend zone

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LtDan_

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Well nice guys are the respectful kind, the ones who check on you to see how you are, and aren't the type to hit you up with "wanna f**" texts, and it sucks but, they are the less good looking guys at school or in public.

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snackthatsmilesback | 133 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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How should I know? Did you scare them away or something?

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Asker

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I wish I knew, that's why I asked

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Asker

I wish I knew, that's why I asked

Answer 27

Anonymous

Money and looks attract most girls. Neither of those two characteristics necessitate the quality of being a ‘nice’ guy and tHe ones that are nice guys are usually taken aren’t they lol

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Opinion Owner

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So I guess my answer is they are with nice girls

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

So I guess my answer is they are with nice girls

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Anonymous

Being told they aren't attractive enough for anyone to date.

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Wise4myage | 5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

They are busy getting walked on by manipulative women.

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Answer 31

Anonymous

Look for people with anime girl avatars on twitter. Be aware they are often bullied and falsely called misogynist or alt-right by evil people who want women to stay opressed because they makes money by pretending to be victims.

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Paul09 | 655 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Maybe we are annoyed of being friend zoned lol.. Only the bad boys get action.. 😑

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Lone_wolf122

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Depends on what you mean by nice guys.. Apparently people have different meanings for it

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Asker

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Someone who's not an asshole at the drop of a hat would be a pretty solid start

Answer 34

Asker

Someone who's not an asshole at the drop of a hat would be a pretty solid start

Answer 35

Protein_mate

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In your inbox or emotional tampon emergency contact list 😂

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Asker

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Okay I was going to formulate a response to this but emotional tampon emergency contact list fucking got me 😂
Protein_mate

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Ahaha

Answer 36

Asker

Okay I was going to formulate a response to this but emotional tampon emergency contact list fucking got me 😂

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Protein_mate

Ahaha

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poneglyphs | 928 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

at home during the pandemic :^)

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wankiam | 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

at home masturbating ;)

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JAY_07

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In your Friend zone list!!

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Romeocuck | 175 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Here. Nice to meet you ma'am

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Answer 42

Anonymous

In your inbox somewhere being ignored lol.

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Asker

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Comment? Read.
Inbox? Empty.
Hotel? Trivago.
Jamie05rhs

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^HAHAHAHA

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Asker

Comment? Read.
Inbox? Empty.
Hotel? Trivago.

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Jamie05rhs

^HAHAHAHA

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