Would you date someone you are not attracted to even though they have a good qualities?

[Cynicaldreamer]

I would and have before!

As a disclaimer, I get it: physical attraction and looks DO matter in a relationship. However, if someone approaches me, says he likes me, and he has a good personality and we have common interests? Of course I'm going to get to know him better. If there's nothing there after I get to know him: friendship.

Both of my exes, I was not attracted to them at all. But due to their personalities and how well they treated me, I gave them a shot and dated them!

See guys, it really is about more than just looks.

[Theresachemin]

The likelihood of me giving it a go is pretty rare but I can’t say no, and I can’t say yes so voted maybe. Because someone’s personality honestly makes them look and seem more attractive when it comes down to it. But if it’s someone who’s but ass ugly then obviously no, but there are attractive people who I am not be attracted to but would maybe go on a flare or too just to give it a shot. If they are okay looking or not ugly then I would give it a go.

[Nik1hil]

YES. Physical attraction is necessary but it can also built up with time..
If you start dating someone and they are a lot like you and they are good for you..
They bring out the best in you.. And they understand you..

And if they are fit by Gym standards. I am good to go..

[gooselover]

I would need to be attracted. Im not like a self-idolising woman on tinder searching for the best man on earth, rich, super model.

You have to be attractive, nice person.

Attractive to me is not such a high standard.

[Anonymous]

maybe.. if I did not find them actually unattractive I sometimes give it a shot. Does happen that attraction comes from other things than appearance. But if he is very into me and wants sex early on then I will end up rejecting, and that is what has happened when I tried that out.

[leesookna]

No, I already experienced that once. It was terrible. You have to pretend that you like him even though he's a nice guy. It just not right, it's make my heart uncomfortable because I don't see him attractive at all plus he's not my type

[Siren777]

Tbh... I have to be attracted to someone to date them.

[not_a_twinkie]

Good qualities or not attraction is attraction, if it's not there than there is no point in dating. Just be friends and stay friends, it will only end badly if you push something that shouldn't be.

[slatyb]

Probably not. I'm not that picky about physical appearance. If I enjoy conversing with a woman, I would likely date her.

[pleasestopthis]

By attraction I take it as physical attraction or sexual tension... yes, I'd date someone I'm not attracted to that way, because I care about other things.

[faithie_Artist]

No, I think the whole point is for me to find a guy attractive, otherwise I don’t have the motivation to keep pursuing him.

[1stranger]

Yeah.. yeah.. yeah.. If he has good qualities, both his heart and his face is beautiful.

[David92506]

Yes, I would. Looks aren't everything. For me, personality outranks looks.

[BunChan]

I did... it was a waste of time... attraction is crucial in a relationship.

[Leonardo_Di_Vinci]

Well but the things is if she is having good qualities... I ll get attracted to her for sure 😬

[Phoenix98]

Nope because if I’m not attracted to them there will be no desire, passion or anything in the relationship and that wouldn’t be fair to either of us.

[hopegirly]

I did already but I think I would not again, it is important now

[clampfan101]

She certainly doesn’t have to be smoking hot. Absolutely not. But she just as much needs her looks to not be turn offs preventing me from focusing on her good and important qualities. Looks are important, just not the most important.

[Jesus_is_the_guey]

LOL I honestly thought it would be the opposite but I guess more women are shallow then men

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, there is a possibility that if she got a makeover then I could be attracted to her. It's not a definite, but it's a possibility.

[Browneye57]

Tell us why you would choose someone you are not attracted to. Please, we're dying to know.

[DiscomfortZone]

Physical attraction is a basic necessitty in a relationship. If there's no attraction there's no chance, so waste each other's time?

[K-I-S-S]

Yes, some people are just really good. Even if you don't fancy them at first.

[Vetis]

the whole bs that "men are visual" is pseudo psychology.
everyone is visual