I don't know if I’m in my head about this or not. I recently got out of a 5 year friends with benefits situation. He ended things because he has a girlfriend. In the process of ending my friends with benefits I met someone new. I like this guy however he told me doesn’t want to be with me just have sex. He also wants to do stuff like going out and traveling. I know it is becoming a social norm to have to a friends with benefits but I want more. I haven’t reach out to the new guy because I don’t want repeat another friends with benefits situation. I've been taking time to think about it. I think I’m just afraid of getting hurt and my emotions played with. Should I give him a chance? We won’t have the same issues as the last friends with benefits but I’m still scared the last friends with benefits put me through a lot.