If you HAD to pick one, which would you date?

Question

Obviously (or hopefully) no one would date anyone like these but if you had to decide, which would be most tolerable to date? Personally I’d pick murderer since they’d be doing me a favor 🤣🤣 but in all seriousness I’d rather die alone than date one of these

If you HAD to pick one, which would you date?

Murderer

Rapist

Pedophile

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GirlGuy

Answer 1

NamerOfStars | 724 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Easy: pedophile. Murderers and rapists have actually done something wrong; pedophiles just have an attraction they can't control. And if they're dating people who are clearly physically adults (I've never seen a kid with a beard even HALF as long as mine), they're obviously trying to fight that temptation.

Asker

28 d
Pedophilia is something they could control or at least prevent through therapy and what they do is wrong (they feel attraction towards children and most of the time they’ll act on it and molest). But interesting point ig
NamerOfStars

28 d
No, it isn't- you don't control what you're attracted to. If you could, there wouldn't BE any pedophiles. All moral concerns aside, simple pragmatism would sell that; there are people out there who'd kill you for it. Look at the downvotes I've already gotten for defending people who haven't done anything wrong; more will come, unless this answer gets ignored.

Feelings don't have moral value; it's not wrong to want something, even if getting requires doing terrible things. Doing terrible things is wrong, but morality requires will.
Asker

28 d
It sounds like you're just justifying pedophilia.
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NamerOfStars

28 d
It doesn't need to be justified; it's an attraction, nothing more. Do we claim that people with any other form of mental illness are morally deficient based on that? No. We judge based on actions- as we should. You can't help your sexuality; "pedophilia" is something you ARE, not something you DO. There's a very good reason that we have separate words for "pedophile" and "child molester".

Answer 2

Asker

Pedophilia is something they could control or at least prevent through therapy and what they do is wrong (they feel attraction towards children and most of the time they’ll act on it and molest). But interesting point ig

Answer 3

NamerOfStars

No, it isn't- you don't control what you're attracted to. If you could, there wouldn't BE any pedophiles. All moral concerns aside, simple pragmatism would sell that; there are people out there who'd kill you for it. Look at the downvotes I've already gotten for defending people who haven't done anything wrong; more will come, unless this answer gets ignored.

Feelings don't have moral value; it's not wrong to want something, even if getting requires doing terrible things. Doing terrible things is wrong, but morality requires will.

Answer 4

Asker

It sounds like you're just justifying pedophilia.

Answer 5

NamerOfStars

It doesn't need to be justified; it's an attraction, nothing more. Do we claim that people with any other form of mental illness are morally deficient based on that? No. We judge based on actions- as we should. You can't help your sexuality; "pedophilia" is something you ARE, not something you DO. There's a very good reason that we have separate words for "pedophile" and "child molester".

Answer 6

Luckycharms12 | 598 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Not great list guess the murder

Answer 7

Bellatris

Xper 5

None of the above. They should all stay the hell away from me.

Asker

28 d
Agreed!!!

Answer 8

Asker

Agreed!!!

Answer 9

kellytheman | 50 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I think I would go murder also just cause the other ones are worst I think.

Answer 10

snackthatsmilesback | 58 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

I'm not a kid so I'll go with pedophile out of those options.

Asker

28 d
I guess so but they could potentially cheat on you with a child 💀
snackthatsmilesback

28 d
Rather be cheated on than raped or killed. Though with a child is still pretty bad.

Answer 11

Asker

I guess so but they could potentially cheat on you with a child 💀

Answer 12

snackthatsmilesback

Rather be cheated on than raped or killed. Though with a child is still pretty bad.

Answer 13

kojikurac | 300 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

https://www.youtube.com/embed/W9mvTNh-plY

Answer 14

Dinosaursandanime65 | 797 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Pedo, but only if there 12-15 and wanted to do it. Like Kavliaris and Hideyoshi, except she’s 11

Answer 15

OddBeMe | 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I guess pedo... they’d be less likely to attack me...

Answer 16

ChrisMaster69 | 630 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

None, zero, just not happening.

Asker

27 d
Well obviously lol, it’s hypothetical though. But yeah any sane person would reject them all of this were a real situation
ChrisMaster69

27 d
Lol yep, even hypothetically it’s a no, you try to do the justification but come up dry.

Answer 17

Asker

Well obviously lol, it’s hypothetical though. But yeah any sane person would reject them all of this were a real situation

Answer 18

ChrisMaster69

Lol yep, even hypothetically it’s a no, you try to do the justification but come up dry.

Answer 19

Joshua0213 | 166 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

Murderer I guess?

Answer 20

SueShe_

Xper 1

I vote C.

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