Men; what are red flags to you? (Page 2)
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Anti-gun anti self-defense get the fuck out of here if you don't see what's going on you're not paying attention and cause me problems I can't go around flashing my Shield I come off as a civilian and I have to stay that way that means I have a regular permit like everybody else and I have to play it that way you got to see how really corrupt and incompetent the cops are in your local area. If the bitch don't understand that whatever find me somebody else. I wonder what else is hiding in her closet resides Tyrone?
Promiscuous behavior, inappropriate interaction with other men
Manipulation, gaslighting and controlling behavior
Insecurity and self-esteem issues and various maladaptive tendencies and coping mechanisms (yapping on about porn, patriarchy and dumb shit like "why have have to shave body hair!")
Completely incompatible core values and future expectations in terms of, for example: religiousness, sexual behavior, marriage, children, traditional and non traditional gender roles et cetera.
1. Scores of ex-boyfriends that she still talks to.
2. Hates kids. I don't trust people that hate children.
3. Hates animals. I don't trust people that hate animals either
4. Racist or homophobic. I won't be associated with any of it.
5. High all the time or drunk all the time. Nothing good comes out of being with someone like that.
1. An obsession with being independent2. Bases personality around hating Trump (disliking Trump is okay, but it can get ridiculous)3. Believes in things like mansplaining4. BLM supporter5. High body count, has kids, or had abortion6. Career obsessed7. Older than 26 years old8. Couch potato9. Fat10. Not a Christian11. Sexually dominant12. Party girlHonorable mentions, but not yet completely undatable: travelling is their personality, "dog/cat mom", into politics
1. If she is still close friends with an ex lover/partner, and she still hangs out with him.
2. If I already know or knew one of her ex lovers/partners, or if she previously kissed somebody I'm friends with.
3. If she has kids, and their biological father is heavily involved in her day to day life due to the kids.
4. If she ever cheated on any guy in her past and I found out.
5. If she comes on too strong initially, and seems a little bit too much.
1. Feminist
3. Has kids
4. Doesn't like dogs or animals
5. Judges based on social status, material possession and wealth
6. Secretive
7. Having an ex she's clearly not over
8. Difference in views that I'm not willing to deal with (I'm anti-religious/agnostic, so if she's religious, it's a red flag)
9. Overweight
10. Excessive piercings other than earrings
I agree with all of these.
There's no such things as "to you ", red flags are the same to everybody, grab that obnoxious who say that "everybody has his own point of view of the world" because "the world already has a point of view more older than you", are you experienced to know that or not, because it's already a red flag for you to be asking this
☢️🏴☠️Red flag, or Jolly Holly🏳️☣️
Stability, if she moves a lot, has a lot of jobs... you can expect that the rest of your life if you get married.
If she gives it out easily to other guys in her past but won't to you... something is wrong. Maybe she still got a friends with benefits situation going on and not ready to stop that.
No it’s probably cause she doesn’t know what your intentions are and how would you know if she gave it up easily in the past
I would know cause she would tell me, if she didn't I wouldn't know... but I had that experience dated someone for two years who easily gave it up to others but not me. I didn't know about her past until she told me two years into it. Then it made me think something was wrong with me, when other guys she would give it up first night, or a week later.
The biggest red flat was her inability to keep a job though.
Hey you asked us what a red flag was, I'm just answering.
Loud mouth. Bad manners. Inconsiderate of others. Overly materialistic. Heavy drinker. Poor sense of humor. Unforgiving. Dishonest. Feminist. Overly defensive. Overweight. Posts scantily clad selfies online.