I'll give you an analogy, if a kid is abandoned in the amazon rainforest at a very young age and in an attempt to make sure the tigers don't eat him he alligns with the monkeys and becomes Tarzan is he damaged goods? Or a product of his situation?
Because all fuck boys where once innocent young teenagers who belived in happily ever after and had butterflies in their stomach and all that but quickly realized that they are in a cruel jungle and the tigers are everywhere. They got hurt over and over and eventually are faced with 3 choices:
- Swear off women and live a life of solitude that ends with a job you hate and not many people in your life outside of it.
- Decide they are gay and blaim there shortcomings with women on "genetics" these often are the kind of gay people that go the extra step to look gay, with clothing and hair and even makeup sometimes but rarely ever sleep with guys because they are not really gay.
- Become a fuckboy and live a life with no real connection but full of sexual interaction as kind of an indirect fu to the girls that hurt him as a kid.
So damaged goods is debatable all things considered I think the fuckboy is still someone getting off easy considering the alternative but you can't blame him for chosing not to be stepped over by women his whole life.
Probably. By the age of 35 anyone who wants to get married probably has. Yes, I know, there are exceptions to every rule and everyone isn’t on the same path in life. I’m speaking generally.
That said, if someone from either gender what’s to get married and hasn’t by age 35 they’re probably damaged goods. They’ve probably been passed over by a lot of people and found unacceptable for marriage.
I find it amazing that a lot of girls can be hypothetically 35; have 3 different kids by 3 different fathers, be living with their mom, have addiction issues, have financial problems, have psychological or emotional problems, be 40 lbs over weight and unintelligent on top of it all and say things like: “I won’t settle.” These girls think they should have a guy whose fit, got everything going for himself in life, is handsome and drives a Lexus. They think that because they’re entitled and think their vagina sound draw a potential spouse like that. I find it to be delusional and humorous.
The same is true for guys. We all know that guy who is 35 and still lives with his parents. He’s obese, works at Walmart as a greeter, his car is currently broke down and he doesn’t have money to fix it. On top of that, he has a criminal record and multiple bankruptcies on his record. He has no charm and his bedroom is decorated with unopened Pokémon action figures still in the package. This guy thinks he should be with a supermodel yet can’t figure out why girls flee from him. Again, delusional and funny.
People from both genders have the potential to be completely out of touch with reality and by 35, that’s probably the case if they’re still single. The bottom line is for both genders, available singles who are generally desirable to members of the opposite sex will likely be selected first.
I know a lot of women still single after 30 because they choose too and can’t find good quality men ( these are successful women with no kids ) I have two female friends who are in this category. Men and their double standards with how dating is most women are lesbian and bisexual ! I fall in this category lol 😆 great post and yes a lot of men play the field and don’t want marriage with women anymore nowadays! Incel behavior is real and toxic masculinity when a lot of guys can’t attract quality women and their use to crappy women behavior so yes a lot of men are playas and toxic f boys !
Thanks! And yeah it's the hypocritical double standards that get me
Yep same here
Your statement made zero sense, a incel is a guy who can get girl so how can they play the field, funny thing is women agree with your statement as if it made sense
Don't mind me. I'm just enjoying the question and comments more than anything :)
😂😂😂 dang that chick in that gif almost looks like me lolol
You got a bag of cheetos over there too? LOL. I knew this question would get some good responses. Gag always amuses me!
Well no no cheetos 😂 I loved @Hurlyburly reply😂😂😂
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NO! ALL fuckboys, and playas are damaged goods, if I knew a guy, even USED to be a playa or a fuckboy, I wouldn’t want to date him.
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Fuckboys and players at any age are worthless to relationship minded women. These guys usually end up owing their lives to back child support.
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By fuckboys getting lots of girls doesn’t that mean, they are what girls want?
Not the smart ones with a lot to offer
Nope - And I'll tell you why not - It's for the sole fact that a woman's perception of a 35 year old fuckboy is not the same as a man's perception of a woman women whore basically - People need to realize men and women are very different - Women can have easy access to sex meanwhile dudes don't - Men are the ones who dictate (usually) commitments - Usually a woman that sees a dude that has been with a few woman doesn't see it as turn off but more of a turn on actually - a dude seeing a women who's been with many dudes sees her as used up.. It is what it is close your legs and you'll be good..
And damn my grammar sucked - almost missed every woman and women😂😂
Okay where did you get this that women don't mind if a guy has laid up with a lot of women? Because I know some who do care So keep your dick in your pants and you'll be just fine😊
Eyyy good answer😂😂😂-Though I'm still on my point and I'll try to explain - most if not almost all women - in my experience - would never sleep with a virgin (not because he's a virgin but because virgins "usually are undesirable basically an incel) - they see most of these dudes as either girlfriends or invisible people😂😂 - meanwhile they'd say that they would never sleep with fuckboys and just want a good man - 3 months later "the good man" is just her friend while she goes into the most common dilemma I've seen in my life which is - "When I met him I hated him, he seemed so full of himself, but now I kinda like him, honestly I feel like behind all of that he's a really good guy, but the problem is, he's a player, So should I believe him when he says he wants something serious with me or is he playing me? " - THAT'S TOO COMMON - meanwhile men never go through that - She fucks a lot=short term dating aka yea I'd fuco her and leave - Virgin=long term aka would you marry me -
No. People are not damaged goods. Period. We aren’t ugly produce.
Exactly!!! This was more to call out the double standards
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Right!!! I'm so tired of people and their bs double standards, no matter what gender doing it🤷🏼♀️
In my opinion it could be by choice, at my age I'm a widow-single I choose for myself to be that way. I guess that's just the way the mind set goes ✌️
👍👍 right! I stay single by choice because people these days, single ain't so bad lol
Nah we're not wicked people 😉
yes they are and there also idiotsits been 30 since i have been with a girl BUT i have plenty of female friends because i dont look at them like a peice of meat like most GAG guys do
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your very welcome
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😂😂😂 that got me first laugh of the morning! Thanks for this😂😂😂
You're welcome xD
Haven't you watched porn?
Well I'm not a fuck boy or anything pulse I'm glad you said in there 30s they call them damaged goods i don't know
I do know I'm in my forty they do say that,, what they say is
DAMN YOU ARE GOOD 😁 Huh! What, don't laugh like that I'm just the messenger with a smile on his Face
😂😂😂 this was more to call out the double standards of the guys on this site Noone is damaged goods, cuz we people. Maybe if people treated little more like people and less like "goods" maybe things wouldn't be liked they are now 🤷🏼♀️
Damn I new I missed it mine was more to be a smart ass again lol but yes you are 100% right
Oh I know... I loved your answer.. I love your humor👍👍
My uncle was a hard time player until he was 49 then settled down and married a 27yr old and had kids. And still cheated on her with a 25yr old. She never divorced him. Both women however did fight over him for 3yrs. I believe men will always be the way they r depending on what women allow.
Why fight the other woman and not the cheater🤷🏼♀️
Me: "How long was your longest relationship?"
He: "Why do you ask?"
Me: "Bye"
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At the age of 20... how long of a relationship can you really have?
@michael1469 I was with the same person from 15 to 20, And then the next one was from 21 to 41 when he passed away, so🤷🏼♀️
My penis would be seriously damaged humping the front door lol 😂
😂😂😂 yeah if it's wooden, watch out for splinters🤣🤣
Exactly... it’s almost like you can feel that pain lol 😂
Better get out the tweezers😂😂
They overdid it with the "fucking around" thing and they are now not capable of thinking of a woman as more than a pussy with a human around it. They are most definitely damaged.
Do you have an English translation of that question?
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Depends on wether they just slept with a lot of other single people responsibly, or left a trail of heartbreak and STDs. Some people take longer to settle down than others, and as long as thier standards are realistic, they have a good career and something to thier name I wouldn't say they are damaged.
I don't know maybe some have actually settled down and changed? Depends on how long they were living that lifestyle though..
their fuckboy and playa attitude is damaged goods already lmao
Right
Guys who are banging women left right and centre can usually get married pretty easily if they want.
this is true in spite of the fact they are fuckboys. But whatever quality lets them be fuckboys also lets them find partners.
the equivalent to this is really hot groupies. Guys may all think they're damaged sluts but if they're really gorgeous there's still a line of guys who would date them.
How long will that marriage last?
@MzAsh depends on a few factors. A significant one I'd say is whether the guy was a cheater or just moved fast between women he was honest with. The latter is more likely to last, and somewhat helpful is the fact that guys I've seen like that who get married definitely choose partners based on seeing them as good marriage material. The guys who cheated a lot... it's not impossible but odds are worse.
Cheating is a big marriage destroyer, but so are lots of other things. I’m not convinced many fuckboys are having life long marriages.
Yes!
Not universally people can change but a lot are
I just had to call out the hypocrisy and double standards... You know, cuz I'm soooo triggered😂😂😂
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Yes, sadly they are stick single at age 35
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