What signs should I look for on the first few dates that are telling of a good hearted and loyal man? I had really bad luck in my last relationship and I’m sure he was a one off and most men aren’t like him. But I am someone who’s extremely loyal and won’t settle for less than full commitment and respect. I don’t want to weird someone out by talking about deep topics too soon but I definitely don’t wanna waste too much time on someone I know isn’t cut out for the long run with me. What are some signs I can look for that can reassure me I’m with someone that has potential? I don’t date for fun, I date with the idea that this is the person I want to build a future with.