I met a guy on a dating website, we chatted there for a long time, and corresponded over a period of about 7 months. Then we took it off line, via a pseudonym email I provided. We Instant Messaged, shared current photographs of each other. Shared our work background etc. He seemed like a great guy, a professional, we had a lot in common. He provided all his personal info on where he lived etc. etc.
Then he proceeded over the next 2 months to ask me a series of questions, like 20 questions. He asked his, and I asked mine...trying to get to know each other better.
Then one day he emailed his last batch of questions and they were well, sexual chemistry type questions...then he also sent an email of his "Pxxxs" and asked me for a picture of my bxxxxt.
What the heck! I was so surprised and shocked. I really was falling for this dude.
I'm a woman past 40 years of age, and he is as well. We are mature adults, but this doesn't seem right to me.
Has anyone experienced anything similar?
How would you approach all this?
End it immediately is my gut. I just never experienced this type of thing...and I'm a bit new in the online dating experience. He came across so sincere wanting a relationship. Then all of a sudden...this sexual stuff.
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Are you sure it was him? I mean his account wasn't hacked or anything? It seems out of character and if nothing was like that before, I mean if he didn't indicate anything like that before then it is strange. I would talk to him first before ending it. Both of you have put a lot of time and effort into this. Maybe it was a misunderstanding.
It does happen online a fair amount it seems but usually pretty quickly. Strange that it took so long for him to do that. Again, I think it was a misunderstanding or miscommunication.0
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