Does he still want to be together?

I hate to bring you those news but this guy is not really into you. You should read between the lines and from what you tell us, he does not really seem eager to meet you.
Everything is "he is going to...". Those are vain promises that he makes in an attempt to quiet you and for him to find another excuse.
Honestly, I feel that you are wasting your time with him as you are obviously not one of his priority. If someone truly loves another person, then one does not find all those excuses but acts upon. Also, it seems to be a one-sided communication and his lack of interest in responding on time just confirms that he has other priorities in life than you.
It is a futile excuse to say that you live too far away. Forty minutes drive is nothing but he takes it as an excuse not to see you.
I would review all the pros and cons of your relation and make up my mind on that basis. You are wasting your life trying to communicate with someonone that obviously does not want to communicate.
It sounds more like he's clueless rather than disinterested
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