How tall does your man need to be and how much money does he need to earn?
I don’t care as long he’s taller than me, and I don’t care as long as he can support himself lol
How tall are you
If it's all right to ask
I’m 5’6 so not crazy tall lol😂😂
Yep, most guys can pass that. Good for them.
lol yeah pretty much
Instead of asking her height the better question for women is what is your dress size?
Why dress size?
Big guns eh? 😭🤣
Being a healthy weight is far more important to men then how tall you are.You say enough to support himself, so if 50k a year good enough for you?
He's asking if you're skinny, got perky boobs are firm ass?
LOL, numbers tell me nothing
@anon1903 I’m dead😂😂😂
Also, she meant she's one of those women who splits bills after a fancy dinner cuz she truly believes in equality.That's what "supporting himself" means in my opinion.
But completely dodged my second question regarding income.
She's saying bare minimum is good. Now if he's extravagant needs, well then, he should look for a better job. She ain't paying
@anon1903 you’re literally right💯
Not all women expect to clean your wallets. Please don't generalize. A guy paying is indeed somewhat a norm but there are some feminists who don't just do rallies but pay for their own selves.
No you two just cannot answer a simple question, you both are just beating around the bush. You wonder why some of us can't take you seriously.
No man, you're twisting the questions.
@anon1903 he doesn’t get it..😏
I am not the one getting it, actually. What do you want us to say? It's like he's asking for us to be bitches.
I think he thinks that all girls are gold diggers and that we’re lying lol
Well, he must realise all men aren't the characters from The Hustle. They don't spend on them for free. EVERYTHING'S got a price.
Damn, you're charming.
Do I detect a hint of sarcasm? If so I do understand. It does come off as a bit shitty, but if you knew me you would know I'm not that way. 45% of the time.
Nope, I meant it
I'm blushing..🤗 thank you for saying that. I really do appreciate it.😉
The bracket trick was surely clever. Also, to have standards is to have self respect. I won't be rude to you for that
Again I do thank you.. and I will say that you are a sweet woman yourself. Tell me about you if you will not detail detail but hoodies, likes, dislikes, where are you from?
India.I'm a charmer, by the way. People have trouble placing finger on the trait.
Oh. I would have never picked you know put a finger on it you're right
Do you have a boyfriend
I don't date.
What is a typical day for you?
Sketching, writing, commenting stuff on Instagram, narcissistically admiring myself in my wardrobe mirror...
Ha! Narcissistically admiring yourself. That made me laugh.
I can gaslight other people just fine, if you must know. It's just even manipulation is too much work.
I'm sure you can. You aren a narcissist are you?
I mean we all can be but take my ex for example. I honestly believe she was born that way also with strong sociopathic tendencies
I really don't want to believe that.
Sociopathy eh? Mind describing her behavior? I'm a psych student so color me curious.
I'd rather not confess anything in public.
What's said between us will stay between us. I don't roll like that. I'm strait up what I say I mean. I joke a at times be a little silly. when it comes down to I know when and how to be serious.
Good to know. Still won't risk it.
I didn't see the question about my ex. Sure I'll explain.
Ok. I was just letting you know about who I am and how I am when something is told to me and trusted not to speak about.
Well for one she is probably the best actress that I've ever seen. Because she had no emotion yet she could cry at the drop of a rain drop. Mean as a snake...2 seconds later wanting to go have ice cream and a walk in park. Manipulates. I've seen her in a period of 8 months manipulate and break down someone until he lost his house. 70 k gone and nothing to show for it. have you ever seen the Adams family'? Picture Tuesday on methamphetamine.
Wednesday? And if she did drugs, it'd be psychopathic story.Terrible you'd to deal with her.
Ha! And it's what today is... I work overnight I lose track of days and names it seems... lol
I was stupidly in love. 7 years. Not all 7 were like that but when she started the meth it came out... the last 2 sucked ass. But I was trying to help her but only hurting myself.
In India, it's Thursday.But that's not important Did you seek professional help, as a survivor?
You damn right I did. It still kind of haunts me some of the things she did. Human beings just don't behave in that manner. She may have looked human on outside but there is a demon in control. Satan himself would take refuge from her.
If it's a touchy subject, I get that. Take good care of yourself.
You know why survivors survive? Because it's about time karma comes into play.
Thank you. I am trying.
I saw her brother for the first time in years the other day. He stay with us for a short time. He said she is still doing the same things. She robbed him in middle of night.
Yeah. We have a whole short note on toxic relationship. It's a real issue in India as most people think "I can handle a little crazy".
It's catching up to her. But I also remember the beginning. That's who I miss.
It's better to cut suck people off.
I have. She stopped by my house a year and half ago. Didn't even get up to answer the door.. I saw her pull up.. she knocked on front door back door and front door a second time. I don't want that in my life.
If she asks for forgiveness, you should. But seriously, tell her to stop getting involved in your life. Be on her way, to put it politely.
I'm not angry anymore. I know the person that she was before. Who she is today I have no clue. I wish no I'll will on her I wish that she would get some help. Her seat daughter finally gave up on her. She invited me to her weeding. said I'm like a second father. I she d a tear that day.
I've this dilemma as a psych student. Should we isolate fucked up people or not? 😯
Half if not more of the world would be isolated and who would determine such.
Well, society would. They usually have firm opinions on who's queer and punishable 😂
The wrong people it seems are the most opinionated. I just don't care for people to much. Meaning I would be just fine interacting with the core peoole in my life and no one else.
It's shower time for me. Anytime you want to talk my dm is open to you. I thank you for the conversation and hope to talk soon again. I need a nap before work
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Um, not really, no.
- are you a virgin?- fit and attractive yourself?- can you cook?If you're not, I think these are double standards for sure.
Whats the problem with double standards? You say that like its aha end of the argument.
Double standards are kind of unrealistic expectations in themselves.
If you don't have it yourself, you can't expect it from others.
Have you ever dated someone before? Almost all people date off double standards. How man girls go for taller men when they themselves are short? Do you tell short girls they should only expect to date short men? Why would a 5'0" girl deserve to date a man taller than 5'0"? Just saying.Do you need 20 more examples?
I've seen tall women go out with shorter guys. Yes, taller men are attractive but it doesn't necessarily mean we're turned of by shorter ones.
But thats not the point that a small amount of tall women date short men. The point is how many women prefer and seek to date taller men? Knowingly desiring an obvious double standard. And then its not just you but then women condemn double standards that men have. Girl please. And you defend it like every damn thing isn't a double standard... dont women generally like more successful men? Dont dare ever ever ever find a man who makes 6 figures attractive unless you earn that much too. Oh you like a man who is strong and makes you feel safe? Dont you dare want that unless you're strong and capable of defending him from a home intruder... HOW DARE YOU want that but yet you aren't strong and capable of fighting a burglar... see how ridiculous it is to condemn double standards? Double standards are what creates sexual attraction. But if you dont like them id suggest you stop having double standards yourself.
If you want a virgin partner, should have avoided having sex.
But i have a virgin girlfriend... or she was 😉 probably because im hot and rich... things women seek as their standards.
You mean, THAT woman sought in you.
Yeah... and most women. Im quite popular with them seeing as i go out of my way to be everything women are not to nail down all their typical double standards so that i might justify my own.
Good for you, honey.
Its great for me because i can get exactly what i want. Most people both guys and girls but i see almost every single girl doing it... is y'all expect a man to meet your standards while at the same time meeting none of our standards... then y'all complain we only want y'all for sex or won't marry y'all or whatever.
For the love of God, don't generalize.
Why not? Its quite useful. I'm not even sure how one could survive without generalizing.
Same. I don't think I'm attracted to a specific physical or mental kind of person. I just like who I like.
Amusing comments, Jack
I probably should have been pickier about dating in hindsight. But you know, it's hard to know people closely until we spend a lot of intimate time with them. So my dating standards were quite loose but my marriage standards were extremely tight.
Isn't that just a type?
Ok so what are your standards
You reached the conclusion you're great catch yourself?
I assume younger men are more lenient with women's whims.
noooo not at all... im just saying i don't just go after anyone who shows an interest in me anymore.
Why did you before? We're you desperate?
more naive i'd say, maybe thinking women were infallible creatures... not so much
Haha I understand
ok maybe there was some desperation on my part too. I mean im super nerdy, socially anxious and was (and still am in ways) susceptible to a womans charm so if they ever showed any interest yeah i did just go for it with little question.but these days i am a lot more choosy, more clear headed.
Socially anxious? Couldn't have guessed that one
Is it why the other day some other woman stood up for you?
lol i mean i guess she just felt i needed it. and yes irl im pretty socially anxious. behind a computer screen i hardly have to worry about that though.
Just a curious psych student query. Don't mind me.
lol ask me whatever you wish. im an open book. :Pand by the way my dms remain open to you still should you ever want to do that instead.
I'm an introvert. I just don't have much to say, that's all.
yes i can tell you are as i am too.
I think you do a better job hiding it. Me? Really unfriendly
well thank you, i guess this plays just allows me to be more of myself that the outside world... but even out there im slowly starting to feel more confident in myself. my family has taken notice.Maybe you did come off a bit standoffish.. but i feel like if i got to know you more i would understand you better. There's no judgement from me at all until that point.
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np. anytime :)
Describe your ideal lady?
I'm with her and funny enough ahe not what I would have described kind realistic a bit clumsy at times our morals match up she is white where I would usually go for mixrace or black or latino
Yeah, you're right
What u mean lol
Yes, you don't sound picky. Those are reasonable standards
Oh yeah ty 👍🏽
Tell me about your standards. I'd like to know.
That bad, really?
Yup. Last two relationships. First was bad but second was even worse!!! Then covid hit other wise I may have more shit. Lol
Well, so are you going to work on it? Your preferences, to be crude?