I admire your fortitude, but I, and Most guys I know divorced or single stopped dating at 30. It may be different where you live, but I'll never date again.
@Slartybartfast there is literally loads of women that are there for dating.It’s not fortitude it’s just being human, happy, confident and having loads of fun,
How can you be happy and "fun" after having your life ruined and working two full-time jobs to pay her bills? At this point i'm just proud that I'm not Suicidal, but I'd bet you a years pay that at least one of my divorced friends will go that way.
@Slartybartfast mural divorce, she has a good salary, mortgage free. I’ve had 3 long term gf’s since.Both happy, I was there Sunday dropping off our daughter.But will pick her up again, as we decided she can live with me for a bit,
Ahh, one friend had a great job in Colorado, his wife cheated and left him , took the kids. . she moved to Cleveland, he had to quit his job to be with his children , moved to Cleveland, then she moved again.,..
@Slartybartfast nah we are fine, I’m having my daughter for a bit so she can get out dating,
@slartybartfast this guy is a afraid to have a commitment.. his life full of adultery which he won't marry his girlfriend. 🤷🏻♀️ only stupid woman wants to be around this kind of guy like him..
@ pink Anon which guy?
OkayNever knowingly committed adultery while singleNever cheated when married,My divorce was very mutual with neither of us cheating.We both get on very well.My ex wife is even a beneficiary in my will, she gets another house,I’ve managed to date and have relationships no problem since getting divorced.Will I marry again, that greatly depends on what the girl I am in a relationship wants, what we mutually decide,Sorry for not being bitter and sad about being divorcedBut it’s actually been fun being sort of a nice version of single.That’s really all I have to say on the matter.Obviously I would say more if you were not Anon. But hey not everyone is brave enough to ask open questions and provide open answers.Those that can walk the walk. And those that hide in the shadows, Draw your own conclusions GaG…
Ugh. She really jumped to conclusions. And who can blame a divorced man for not wanting to jump into marriage again? As far as dating, I know many divorced guys over 40 who date.
@loves2learn they only want to Date, but they don't want to MARRY again. there are differences
@chrismaster69 sorry. I thought you never had married before..
Actually they want a steady relationship
but if you get marry again , it would more steady.
@ pink Anon.As I said originally, yes I was divorced, it was mutual.If I remarried it would be a decision between me and my then girlfriend.If I did chances are it would be a Celtic one
@anon your question was “why don’t they want to date or marry?” That is the question I answered.
don't mind me im just here to watch asker implode lols
@ pretty pink Anon, thank you most appreciated.
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what if you find a really nice woman?
To find you need to search, I'm done looking. I can't just passively sit back and wait for women I have to work hard for it and I already have a job I don't need another I have to pay to go to.
what if she find you first? and really likes you?
Don't know, never happened.
how is that possible? I mean if they don't have child, she doesn't deserve to get that money
Different countries different rules