How can I make my dating situation better (it is nonexistent)?

My problem is that I am a nice, friendly person (part of my culture). It is a disadvantage in my major because I end up giving the wrong signs and end up getting hit on. I have learned to be passive random act of kindness person. However, even if I didn't smile or talk to someone, they approach me. The problem is the guys that approached me are aggressive, macho type. I also learned never fall for a guy who has a lot of insecurities issues and is needy after my stalker incident.

I am really into older gentleman, laid back, funny, and down-to-earth guy. I also into nerd but they are intimidated by my career choice... Can someone advice on what I should do? I am in early 20s.


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  • Smile at the guys you like.