Why is he hot and cold?

He told me that he has an on again, off again girlfriend and that him and his girlfriend got back together one month ago. I like him but it sucks to hear this. But he very often invites me out to hang out with him. The first time I hung out with him, he gave me a hug. He is really friendly sometimes and other times a bit distant. Why?


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  • Because he is kinda interested in you but at the same time he's more invested in his on/off girlfriend. So he does like hanging out and spending time with you, that's why he asks you to do so, but he can't show you that he's interested or that he wants anything more because that'll jsut complicate his life and he's not sure right now whether or not he wants to be with you more or stay with her.