I just think if you want to build a possible life with someone you need to have some shit figured out in your life before doing that. Well I had a date with a guy and I asked him all the important questions to figure out if he's just a player or If he's a good man. He basically had zero aspirations and goals. But he wanted a serious relationship but I thought that was weird because he still has to get his shit together. He can't support his girlfriend in the long run or have a successful relationship as well. I found out he's an alcoholic on top of it and he just got a dui. I just wonder why he just doesn't say he's looking for something not so serious because his life right now is fucked up. But honestly he shouldn't be dating in general. I guess I feel disappointed like he wasted my time.