I don't get it. No matter what I do, the same thing just keeps on happening to me. I used to rush things with guys, be impatient and kind of clingy and giving sex to soon which ran them away so I figure I change things. Like this one guy I met, gave me his number and we began to talk on the phone and sometimes days would go by. a text here and there but never bugged him or question why I haven't heard from him. he would make plans and not follow thru and I didn't say nothin. then after 2 wks he asked to come over to my place to see me. We laughed the whole time, talked and he even said he was just gonna stay for 30 minutes ended up staying 2 hrs. We didn't even have sex, not a kiss but we messaged each other and we were leaning on each other felt like great chemistry. Well, after that day I heard nothing from him. its been almost 2 weeks now and heard nothin. not a text. nada. So I texted what's up 2 days ago and just yesterday he texted me what's up? and I responded all was good and how he been and got no response. Texted him today why he has been so quiet and thought our last visit was nice and got nothing again. What yall think? I mean we agreed on being friends since he has a girlfriend and I never crossed that line with him but he don't seem to be interested in a friendship either after how long he spent with me that night, all that laughin, no sex, wasnt buggin him or questioned him and still.nothings changed. It just seems like its never good enough. what yall think?
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he just thinks you're not serious if you sleep with him on the first date0