Yes absolutely. Honestly past 3 prior men and she's essentially worthless for a serious relationship. Or if any were casual sex like a stranger from a bar. No value for serious relationship.
You know that having sex doesn't change your personality or body aside from the hymen right? And even that can rupture along life doing things like horse riding.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 no it absolutely changes your personality. All one has to do is talk to literally any virgin waiting for marriage and a bar skank who sleeps with a new man every night to see there is a difference. The line isn't at 20 its not at 30... its at which point sex as become casual. Which for young marriagable sort of women is typically somewhere at 3 or less.
@bamesjond0069 let me try to explain the problem in your logic. Having sex is not what changes one's personality. The personality you have is what makes you have sex or not. Sex is not the causation for the personality is the other way around!
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 and that still makes a girl who had sex with a few men a bad bet because she has a certain kind of personality. It doesn't matter if the chicken or the egg came first, a chicken still has feathers.
@bamesjond0069 now we are getting to my point! The only personality trait that separates non virgins from virgins is their opening to sex. One sees it as sacred the other does not. That is it! No other personality trait is guaranteed just because she is a virgin.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 but if she had sex with a few people factually she doesn't see it as "sacred" so the inverse matters 100%. Non virgins (say body count 4 and up at a young age) obviously do not see it as "sacred" thus they are all bad. Whats left is a group of women that are mostly much better. Just because some portion is not better doesn't make it a useless grouping because the other group is entirely bad. If your choice in buying a car was either choose a non functioning one from a junkyard or choose a randomly selected vehicle off the street... you may yet a POS leaking oil from 1990 with rust but you certainly have better chances than getting one from the junkyard.
And what do you prefer? A car that doesn't work properly. So bad that you almost have to drag it along the street. Or a car that almost works like Siri, you say your destination and it takes you there?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 then why even be faithful? If its so natural why not just fuck anyone and everyone? Why bother having a relationship at all when you can just sleep around with someone new every week?
And yes id rather have a girl that works like siri. But siri learns your voice and commands and preset settings. Its custom to you... this is how a virgin is. Blank slate and learns how to perfectly match you. Experienced girls have experience with what every other man likes but not you. Virgins on day 1 might not be better but over time are far better in bed than an experienced girl.
@bamesjond0069 I said it is natural and it should be considered as such. Not that we shouldn't be faithful.
So this is just an ego thing. Because you will have sex with her several times to teach her. She is not a virgin anymore! She became the same as a non virgin would be. Except she only had you. That is just an ego thing. A non virgin will also adapt to you, like you will to her. The sex will be much better. Why do I need to spend time teaching a virgin when I can have it right away? Because of ego? Fucking a virgin doesn't make me feel more like a man.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 you dont seem like you have much experience with virgins and non virgins. But agree to disagree. Virgins will do anything basically they expect you to be dominant and lead them. So if you aren't getting everything you want and more out of them you're just not leading them right. Experienced girls may have already tried things and dont like it. In which case they will not want to do those things with you and it will take much convincing. My girlfriend was a virgin. She let me do anal right away. She was just very excited about sex and thrilled to try. My friends with benefits who had had anal once before and it ripped her asshole never wanted to do it. Im also kinda big but its been a no go. It took me a whole year just to get her to let me try it. Smh. This is just one example I've come across many.
@bamesjond0069 I had them and that's why I know they don't perform as well in bed. A virgin girl is not necessarily a submissive girl. And in fact they are more likely to deny things. You really think you say "jump" and virgins say how high? Not at all! A girl who had dick before is much more likely to accept and enjoy everything you want to do. With virgins "oh no it hurts" "oh no that's nasty" "oh no I don't feel comfortable". With an experienced girl you don't even have to ask! There is no comparison.
@bamesjond0069 if she is not willing to suck your dick she is not going to do it on the first day. And even if she does it will take time until she is good at it. By the time you are done training her I already had several great times that will continue to be great. There is really no advantages. Is just psychological. The idea that she just had you, that you are the first. That's what makes you feel special. That's why you like them. Aside from that they bring nothing.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 at least there will come time she will be ideal for him since she got her experoence from him. You know your woman made other men feel good. Just imagine the things she did. Close your eyes and imagine her mouth on other dicks.
@marish01 exactly. Eventually she will be exactly a perfect match for me. he's very short sighted and wants pretty good right now instead of perfect later on.
I have a story about this. I dated a cute girl who had two prior boyfriends. When we finally had sex i was about to cum and she tried to stick her finger in my butt. As a pretty normal heterosexual man i jumped up like wtf is wrong with you dont do that. Her prior two boyfriends both liked that and were both super beta cuckold types. She had a few weird things like that about her from those sicko freaks she had dated i had to re teach her. They really messed her up bad. Both of my very serious girlfriends who were virgins i remember how awesome it was the first time and neither tried to sodomize me. Lmao
@marish01 Why should I imagine that? Makes no difference she wasn't mine at the time. Now she is. I don't want to imagine she having sex with any other guy besides me right now. Previous to me? When she wasn't mine? No problem.
About she being perfect for him one day, an experienced one will always be better. Think about it, two experienced people will always end up doing a better job than two who are doing it for the first time.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 so if you want the best sex only a prostitute is a true expert. Why even waste your time with this lame ass only 10 or 20 body count women? you're really missing out. (End sarcasm. Sadly i have to write that here.)
Two things 1. After a few different sexual experiences you are as good as you ever going to get. A girl that fucked 100 guys is not necessarily better than a girl who fucked 10, but both fuck better than a virgin. 2. Prostitutes are an extreme example. The average count for sexual partners is 7
@marish01 I have done it before. That is why I can say from experience that non virgins are better in bed. Virgins are not a deal breaker, but I was actually happy when my now wife told me she was not a virgin.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 yes which means her intimacy with other men means happiness to you. If she was a virgin you couldn't teach her anything. You probably would ask her to sleep around and gain sone experience then get back to you. Or maybe you would dump her and find a non virgin?
@marish01 you seem to be confusing things. As soon as she is mine I want her to be just mine. I am glad that she has experience, but all the experience that I want to have from now on is with me.
I have already told you that I taught a virgin before. She wasn't just a hookup, she was my girlfriend at the time. I taught her how to have sex and everything was fine. But there is no comparing that what me and my wife have. You can't expect two experienced people to do it worse than two inexperienced ones.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 your wife is better than the virgin you taught sex because yourvwude was taught by other men. And yes you do value her past intimacy with others
@marish01 wrong. No matter how well I teach her, she will only have me as an experience. You are probably a virgin or you only had one partner so let me teach you something, the same thing that works with someone, will not necessarily work with another. So the more experience you have the more you can bring to the table in terms of sex.
Let me try to make you understand. If a virgin girl has sex with an experienced guy. Isn't she happy for him to have the skills to teach her? That makes her happy for the other girls he fucked right?
@Jamie05rhs its because men and women are different. Women generally want a man to lead and men generally want a woman to follow. Having sexual experience helps one lead where it hinders one to follow. Its not hypocritical at all.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Yes I am a virgin and I'm glad no guy got to touch me as I belong to the right man only. The idea of having been intimate with men in the past would make me desperate as I would regret sharing is the most personal and the most intimate moments with the wrong ones. I don't give a damn about what the wrong men like in bed. If I cared about what other men like in bed I could simply use Internet and find millions of men willing to share with me what turns tgem on. But like I said that type of information is absolutely garbage to me. I don't want to know what they like not to mention getting to know it by letting them touch me. I will explore ONLY HIS BODY. I am sure he will not be a cuck. He will be a real man who will appreciate that I chose to be ONLY WITH HIM. Only a beta cuck would say "I wish she got fucked by men who happened to be good fuckers so they could teach her what I can't".
@Jamie05rhs no they don't. That much I guarantee you. What do you think changes in their bodies that changes their personality just because they had sex? Use biology and facts to tell me how their personalities change.
@marish01 You know that sex doesn't require love right? You can do it just for carnal desire. And then do it out of live with someone you care for. One thing doesn't prevent the other. Have all the sex you want just to get off. Then in a relationship, with the man you love when he comes along, make it intimate and loving. Easy.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 to me it requires love as I deserve love. I am that special. No one gets to have the most intimate and the most personal act with me without love. If I had sex without love then whatI would become numb to intimacy. It would become a usual thing like taking a shit. Intimacy becomes dull. At lease it will not be as sacred and plasurable as it could be if it was valued in a sense that you would choose ONLY sex with love If you can have the most intimate thing with the person you don't love then the person you love is not special as both of them get the same closeness. Physically sex has the same closeness in both cases. Therefore sex with "love" loses its intensity. I will explore my body by being with the man Iove. And no one can say that it would be wiser if I lost my virginity to the man who wants me because he sees me as a momentary access to his carnal desire.
@marish01 If you can't separate love from sex that's you. Do what you want to do, no one is trying to tell you otherwise. But don't shame people who can separate the two things.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 listen boy. It is you who stuck his nose into my personal life and offered sex without love with others. You said "Have all the sex you want just to get off. Then in a relationship, with the man you love when he comes along, make it intimate and loving. Easy." If you advise me to have sex without love then don't become a crybaby when I express my negativity for it. If you are allowed to tell me to have sex without love then I am more than allowed to shame you for it. But I instead chose to nicely explain why I don't want it. If you are willing to share sexual intimacy with absolutely random people then intimacy to you is as special as the random food you try.
@marish01 I did what? I didn't offered you anything. I said that you can do it. I never told you to do it. And for sure didn't offered it to you! You do what you want. I just told you that you have options. The decision is all yours.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 the part that I quoted you shows you advised me to have sex without love. Even when CLEARLY SAID that I deserve love and feel disgust for the idea of sex without love. And I want to explore my body only with the man I love and who loves me. I am sure he will be glad that I'm willing to have sexual intimacy ONLY WITH HIM. Why would he want me to sleep around, gain experience and start dating him. I will know what he wants by having sex with HIM not with randon guys who might have prefernces that will allign to his preferences
@marish01 I said that you can do it without love. And you can. If you want or not that's up to you. Sex doesn't have to be put of love. It can and if that's the only way you want it, fine.
From what we talk so far I know very well you are never going to have sex unless it is with that special person. And that is fine! Just don't come here to shame people who don't have the same take on things.
No, usually they are a worst choice in dating, virginity after a certain age is harbringer of huge and fantasy excpectation... that usually you cannot satisfy.
Except people are not cars. Have you ever had a virgin and a girl that actually knows what she is doing? If you want to use a car analogy it's more between a car that needs you to pedal and the other almost goes to the destiny alone.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 the point is that it’s new and unsullied so it’s A tighter B safer and you can teach her along the way it’s gonna feel good for you anyways and if your bad at it she doesn’t know the difference
She will never perform as well as a non virgin that's a given. You say you teach her, but the moment you have the first time she is no longer a virgin. So what's the point anyway? Unless it's not about her being a virgin specifically. It's about knowing you are the only one. An ego thing then.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 do you get turned on by imagining your woman being smashed by other men. I doubt men who respect themselves would react positivly to the intimacy between his woman and other men.
@marish01 what makes you think that I imagine that? I don't imagine what she did with other men I don't care about what she did before. Why should I? She is mine now. Why would I be intimidated by an experienced woman?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 but she learned how to do everything so well for you by being with other men.,,…. I think that’s just so weird. Tbh I’m still a virgin at 18 and I would want the guy that I lose my virginity to , to be a virgin or have less sexual experience than most boys my age too. I take sexual intimacy in very serious regard, and I would want him to as well.
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No, they aren't. If a woman is close to your age and still a virgin, she probably is hung up about sex. But maybe you are too.
Yes absolutely. Honestly past 3 prior men and she's essentially worthless for a serious relationship. Or if any were casual sex like a stranger from a bar. No value for serious relationship.
You know that having sex doesn't change your personality or body aside from the hymen right? And even that can rupture along life doing things like horse riding.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 no it absolutely changes your personality. All one has to do is talk to literally any virgin waiting for marriage and a bar skank who sleeps with a new man every night to see there is a difference. The line isn't at 20 its not at 30... its at which point sex as become casual. Which for young marriagable sort of women is typically somewhere at 3 or less.
@bamesjond0069 let me try to explain the problem in your logic.
Having sex is not what changes one's personality. The personality you have is what makes you have sex or not.
Sex is not the causation for the personality is the other way around!
@bamesjond0069 you don't become a different person after having sex. That is just ridiculous.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 and that still makes a girl who had sex with a few men a bad bet because she has a certain kind of personality. It doesn't matter if the chicken or the egg came first, a chicken still has feathers.
@bamesjond0069 now we are getting to my point!
The only personality trait that separates non virgins from virgins is their opening to sex. One sees it as sacred the other does not.
That is it! No other personality trait is guaranteed just because she is a virgin.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 but if she had sex with a few people factually she doesn't see it as "sacred" so the inverse matters 100%. Non virgins (say body count 4 and up at a young age) obviously do not see it as "sacred" thus they are all bad. Whats left is a group of women that are mostly much better. Just because some portion is not better doesn't make it a useless grouping because the other group is entirely bad. If your choice in buying a car was either choose a non functioning one from a junkyard or choose a randomly selected vehicle off the street... you may yet a POS leaking oil from 1990 with rust but you certainly have better chances than getting one from the junkyard.
But why should they see sex as sacred? It isn't. It's literally the mist natural thing in the world. Why should we make a big deal out of it?
And what do you prefer? A car that doesn't work properly. So bad that you almost have to drag it along the street. Or a car that almost works like Siri, you say your destination and it takes you there?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 then why even be faithful? If its so natural why not just fuck anyone and everyone? Why bother having a relationship at all when you can just sleep around with someone new every week?
And yes id rather have a girl that works like siri. But siri learns your voice and commands and preset settings. Its custom to you... this is how a virgin is. Blank slate and learns how to perfectly match you. Experienced girls have experience with what every other man likes but not you. Virgins on day 1 might not be better but over time are far better in bed than an experienced girl.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 choosing sexual lifestyle defines who you are as a person.
@marish01 exactly
If a woman wants to sleep with anyone so badly she won't remain a virgin for so long.
@bamesjond0069 I said it is natural and it should be considered as such. Not that we shouldn't be faithful.
So this is just an ego thing.
Because you will have sex with her several times to teach her. She is not a virgin anymore!
She became the same as a non virgin would be. Except she only had you. That is just an ego thing.
A non virgin will also adapt to you, like you will to her. The sex will be much better. Why do I need to spend time teaching a virgin when I can have it right away? Because of ego? Fucking a virgin doesn't make me feel more like a man.
@marish01 no it doesn't. You can chose to be a virgin and be a horrible person.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 you dont seem like you have much experience with virgins and non virgins. But agree to disagree. Virgins will do anything basically they expect you to be dominant and lead them. So if you aren't getting everything you want and more out of them you're just not leading them right. Experienced girls may have already tried things and dont like it. In which case they will not want to do those things with you and it will take much convincing. My girlfriend was a virgin. She let me do anal right away. She was just very excited about sex and thrilled to try. My friends with benefits who had had anal once before and it ripped her asshole never wanted to do it. Im also kinda big but its been a no go. It took me a whole year just to get her to let me try it. Smh. This is just one example I've come across many.
@bamesjond0069 I had them and that's why I know they don't perform as well in bed.
A virgin girl is not necessarily a submissive girl. And in fact they are more likely to deny things. You really think you say "jump" and virgins say how high? Not at all! A girl who had dick before is much more likely to accept and enjoy everything you want to do.
With virgins "oh no it hurts" "oh no that's nasty" "oh no I don't feel comfortable". With an experienced girl you don't even have to ask! There is no comparison.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 just depends how good a teacher you are i suppose.
@bamesjond0069 if she is not willing to suck your dick she is not going to do it on the first day. And even if she does it will take time until she is good at it. By the time you are done training her I already had several great times that will continue to be great.
There is really no advantages. Is just psychological. The idea that she just had you, that you are the first. That's what makes you feel special. That's why you like them. Aside from that they bring nothing.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 at least there will come time she will be ideal for him since she got her experoence from him.
You know your woman made other men feel good. Just imagine the things she did. Close your eyes and imagine her mouth on other dicks.
@marish01 exactly. Eventually she will be exactly a perfect match for me. he's very short sighted and wants pretty good right now instead of perfect later on.
I have a story about this. I dated a cute girl who had two prior boyfriends. When we finally had sex i was about to cum and she tried to stick her finger in my butt. As a pretty normal heterosexual man i jumped up like wtf is wrong with you dont do that. Her prior two boyfriends both liked that and were both super beta cuckold types. She had a few weird things like that about her from those sicko freaks she had dated i had to re teach her. They really messed her up bad. Both of my very serious girlfriends who were virgins i remember how awesome it was the first time and neither tried to sodomize me. Lmao
@marish01 Why should I imagine that? Makes no difference she wasn't mine at the time. Now she is. I don't want to imagine she having sex with any other guy besides me right now. Previous to me? When she wasn't mine? No problem.
About she being perfect for him one day, an experienced one will always be better. Think about it, two experienced people will always end up doing a better job than two who are doing it for the first time.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 so if you want the best sex only a prostitute is a true expert. Why even waste your time with this lame ass only 10 or 20 body count women? you're really missing out. (End sarcasm. Sadly i have to write that here.)
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 ypi have a positive view on her intimacy with other men. You love that intimacy. Eww
Two things
1. After a few different sexual experiences you are as good as you ever going to get. A girl that fucked 100 guys is not necessarily better than a girl who fucked 10, but both fuck better than a virgin.
2. Prostitutes are an extreme example. The average count for sexual partners is 7
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 why do you think your not skilled enough to teach a virgin? Why do you think random men are better at teaching sexual skills?
@marish01 I have done it before. That is why I can say from experience that non virgins are better in bed.
Virgins are not a deal breaker, but I was actually happy when my now wife told me she was not a virgin.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 yes which means her intimacy with other men means happiness to you.
If she was a virgin you couldn't teach her anything. You probably would ask her to sleep around and gain sone experience then get back to you. Or maybe you would dump her and find a non virgin?
@marish01 you seem to be confusing things. As soon as she is mine I want her to be just mine. I am glad that she has experience, but all the experience that I want to have from now on is with me.
I have already told you that I taught a virgin before. She wasn't just a hookup, she was my girlfriend at the time. I taught her how to have sex and everything was fine. But there is no comparing that what me and my wife have. You can't expect two experienced people to do it worse than two inexperienced ones.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 your wife is better than the virgin you taught sex because yourvwude was taught by other men.
And yes you do value her past intimacy with others
@marish01 wrong. No matter how well I teach her, she will only have me as an experience. You are probably a virgin or you only had one partner so let me teach you something, the same thing that works with someone, will not necessarily work with another. So the more experience you have the more you can bring to the table in terms of sex.
Let me try to make you understand. If a virgin girl has sex with an experienced guy. Isn't she happy for him to have the skills to teach her? That makes her happy for the other girls he fucked right?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Girls most certainly become different people after having had sex. I see it all the time.
But Marish won't answer your question because she's a hypocrite and she wants guys who have fucked other girls.
@Jamie05rhs its because men and women are different. Women generally want a man to lead and men generally want a woman to follow. Having sexual experience helps one lead where it hinders one to follow. Its not hypocritical at all.
@bamesjond0069 It is hypocritical, and you're one of the hypocrites.
But since you and Marish both believe the same thing, maybe y'all should get together.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Yes I am a virgin and I'm glad no guy got to touch me as I belong to the right man only. The idea of having been intimate with men in the past would make me desperate as I would regret sharing is the most personal and the most intimate moments with the wrong ones. I don't give a damn about what the wrong men like in bed. If I cared about what other men like in bed I could simply use Internet and find millions of men willing to share with me what turns tgem on. But like I said that type of information is absolutely garbage to me. I don't want to know what they like not to mention getting to know it by letting them touch me.
I will explore ONLY HIS BODY. I am sure he will not be a cuck. He will be a real man who will appreciate that I chose to be ONLY WITH HIM.
Only a beta cuck would say "I wish she got fucked by men who happened to be good fuckers so they could teach her what I can't".
@Jamie05rhs no they don't. That much I guarantee you. What do you think changes in their bodies that changes their personality just because they had sex? Use biology and facts to tell me how their personalities change.
@marish01 You know that sex doesn't require love right? You can do it just for carnal desire. And then do it out of live with someone you care for. One thing doesn't prevent the other.
Have all the sex you want just to get off. Then in a relationship, with the man you love when he comes along, make it intimate and loving. Easy.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 to me it requires love as I deserve love. I am that special. No one gets to have the most intimate and the most personal act with me without love.
If I had sex without love then whatI would become numb to intimacy. It would become a usual thing like taking a shit. Intimacy becomes dull. At lease it will not be as sacred and plasurable as it could be if it was valued in a sense that you would choose ONLY sex with love
If you can have the most intimate thing with the person you don't love then the person you love is not special as both of them get the same closeness. Physically sex has the same closeness in both cases. Therefore sex with "love" loses its intensity.
I will explore my body by being with the man Iove. And no one can say that it would be wiser if I lost my virginity to the man who wants me because he sees me as a momentary access to his carnal desire.
@marish01 If you can't separate love from sex that's you. Do what you want to do, no one is trying to tell you otherwise. But don't shame people who can separate the two things.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 listen boy. It is you who stuck his nose into my personal life and offered sex without love with others.
You said
"Have all the sex you want just to get off. Then in a relationship, with the man you love when he comes along, make it intimate and loving. Easy."
If you advise me to have sex without love then don't become a crybaby when I express my negativity for it.
If you are allowed to tell me to have sex without love then I am more than allowed
to shame you for it. But I instead chose to nicely explain why I don't want it.
If you are willing to share sexual intimacy with absolutely random people then intimacy to you is as special as the random food you try.
@marish01 I did what?
I didn't offered you anything.
I said that you can do it. I never told you to do it. And for sure didn't offered it to you!
You do what you want. I just told you that you have options. The decision is all yours.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 the part that I quoted you shows you advised me to have sex without love.
Even when CLEARLY SAID that I deserve love and feel disgust for the idea of sex without love. And I want to explore my body only with the man I love and who loves me. I am sure he will be glad that I'm willing to have sexual intimacy ONLY WITH HIM.
Why would he want me to sleep around, gain experience and start dating him.
I will know what he wants by having sex with HIM not with randon guys who might have prefernces that will allign to his preferences
@marish01 I said that you can do it without love. And you can. If you want or not that's up to you.
Sex doesn't have to be put of love. It can and if that's the only way you want it, fine.
From what we talk so far I know very well you are never going to have sex unless it is with that special person. And that is fine!
Just don't come here to shame people who don't have the same take on things.
No, we're not any different than women who have had sex
In 2021, there is no better choice in dating... it's over.
I've never seen it that way, and my experiences have varied
No, usually they are a worst choice in dating, virginity after a certain age is harbringer of huge and fantasy excpectation... that usually you cannot satisfy.
No. But it depends what you are dating for. If it's sex, then obviously not.
Probably really narrows the dating pool just dating virgins, especially as you get older.
I value your opinion
For me, they would be; and I can speak only for me.
When it comes to dating? Unsure
But sex? I prefer a girl who’s not a virgin, but clean.
Everything happens smoother, easier, & at a faster momentum. The feeling is pretty much the same.. Maybe a very slight difference.
Yes, in particular with thoughts towards marriage as the end goal.
It depends on what each person prefers. That answer will very.
Vary*
depends on what you want I guess.
Dating does not base on being a virgin or not. And never it will ever be. If you based on thatprepare for the worst.
In what terms there are also different reasons for being virgin. It all boils down to ur preference.
The only thing that I ever did with a virgin was give her oral pleasure.
Yes they are actually but they are a rare breed especially by the time their my age
Why are they better?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 isn’t it obvious? That’s like asking why a new car is better than a used car
Except people are not cars.
Have you ever had a virgin and a girl that actually knows what she is doing?
If you want to use a car analogy it's more between a car that needs you to pedal and the other almost goes to the destiny alone.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 the point is that it’s new and unsullied so it’s A tighter B safer and you can teach her along the way it’s gonna feel good for you anyways and if your bad at it she doesn’t know the difference
She will never perform as well as a non virgin that's a given.
You say you teach her, but the moment you have the first time she is no longer a virgin. So what's the point anyway? Unless it's not about her being a virgin specifically. It's about knowing you are the only one. An ego thing then.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 do you get turned on by imagining your woman being smashed by other men. I doubt men who respect themselves would react positivly to the intimacy between his woman and other men.
@marish01 what makes you think that I imagine that? I don't imagine what she did with other men I don't care about what she did before. Why should I? She is mine now.
Why would I be intimidated by an experienced woman?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 but she learned how to do everything so well for you by being with other men.,,…. I think that’s just so weird. Tbh I’m still a virgin at 18 and I would want the guy that I lose my virginity to , to be a virgin or have less sexual experience than most boys my age too. I take sexual intimacy in very serious regard, and I would want him to as well.
@Holo900 if you want that fine. There is nothing wrong with that.
Never dated one. I don’t know.
Might depend on if they are virgin men or not.
How will I know she is a virgin?
Yes, they are.