As a black woman, black American men don't meet my dating criteria mentally, emotionally, intellectually, nor in income. Is that odd? (Page 2)
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You just have to find black men that are into the same stuff as you are.
No it's not odd it just means your picky. Your dating pool will be smaller and that's OK so long as you don't lash out for it being small. You set the parameters.
Being adventurous is not picky. Being mentally, emotionally, and financially stable is not picky
Look there's nothing wrong with picky I already tried to say that.
That's not called picky. If you see that as picky then you're an unstable individual
I don't get why this upsets you. You're getting hung up on a word. I am agreeing with you. A person SHOULD choose someone that wants the same things in life. You save yourself a whole lot of heartache. And who really cares what skin tone that comes in. It sounds like you're trying defend dating outside your race as though you've been told repeatedly "that's not OK". Look at no point in your life is there going to be a time where somebody isn't trying to impose their will on you.
Do what makes you happy!
The only thingni was trying to say is when you set up barriers you shrink your dating pool which lessen your chance of success. I'm speaking from personal experience. I don't want you to make the same mistake.
Good luck to you :)
I will agree though there no such thing as white people stuff and black people stuff. That's ridiculous thinking that keeps races divided.
That's not what I'm doing and no I'm not upset. Race has a lot to do with it. Black men are the least educated, lowest earners, most of them are dead beat fathers or are a product of one so they lack emotional stability to be a man and how to raise a child, a lot are incarcerated, a lot of them have a lot of hate and aggression towards the world because they feel they are under constant attack. So yes race has a lot to do with dynamics. They are the least to value family, kids, hypergamy, least to value marriage.
Iām actually agreeing with what he said here
Not really. Go for what makes you happy.
Whatever works for ya
do what make you happy !
Choose the ones you are most attracted to.
Preach girl 🙌