How come when I do what other people do I get in trouble for it?
As a grown woman, How do you get in trouble for it?
Because when I string someone be around than I am the selfish person but when people do it to me im desperate.
Anyone who strings someone along but doesn't really want them is selfish and those who know they're being strung along but put up with it are desperate. This is just the truth of it. It's not just you, it's anyone. Those people probably get called out too, you just don't know about it. People who string people along know it's a selfish act, they just don't care. And people who are being strung, know it's a desperate act to allow it, but they don't have much better. Both are benefiting. The one doing the stringing has someone to fall back on and the one being strung has someone occasionally giving them attention. Is it right? no. But this is the truth.
It is out of our control nothing you can do about it but stay single.
Or you learn, improve and find balance. When someone is your equal there will be no stringing.
Who played you?
I experience a lot of people who like to string you along
Oh if they are stringing you along it’s for selfish reasons
I don't understand what that stuff supposed to mean but it gives me a headache having to watch over people especially if they are trying to con me and that is why I stop dating so I can have my peace all other people do is talk junk about you for letting people fool you
So if you stopped dating why ask about it?
Because it really never ends can't really predict the future and if you will have to live it again in the future.
Gotcha so you still are dating
Really don't feel like it since people like to play games because nobody is is going to feel sorry for you.
If someone connects with you and is authentic then they wouldn’t need to feel sorry for you
When I complain about jackasses people think that I am trying to get them to feel sorry for me but it really annoys me how stupid people act.
Stupid people annoy lots. Better to ignore their immature behavior tho.
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