He's not old school where he needs to pay for everything and I was raised old school where he should pay for everything in the beginning of getting to know each other. I don't know how to talk about this or maybe hint at it without coming off as rude. Should I not even tell him because he's considered a lost cause if he isn't already acting like this. Before you judge me, I'm ok with taking care of the house/making meals. So I am playing my part as a woman and id like him to play his part too.