I think I could treat her as a friend but in my experience it’s always in the back of my mind whether there’s potential for more.
I was about to say well that's perfect but then I read the other guy's opinion and he has a point - now for a solution - the way I see it - Are there any ways you could look more attractive as well as pull away a bit from her? - Like I think if you look a bit different and look like very confident in groups and stuff and keep texting with her to a very small number of messages like the bare minimum - All the while having other conversations with other women - she'll probably be attracted as hell again
I mean she’s off the table now though. But she might introduce me to friends?
But she might introduce you to single friends?
She will never do that because even though she doesn’t want you, she wants your attention and will never want to let a friend take that from her. Girls are petty and egotistical. They compete for male attention, they do not give it up for a friend to have.
How do you know that?
Well he's kinda right - Think about it this way - You have to completely not care about having sex with her or having emotions for her for this to work - Since that if you act like a confident dude and flirt with other women and have fun and stuff - She'll want your attention again - You're gonna take that as her showing interest - while in reality the moment you give her that attention she'll be good again and act like you're just friends - which will create resentment in you - Over time you lose - So I see what he's saying - as I said the only way for this to work is if you completely don't entertain the idea, which is tough to do in such circumstances
@jaybee281 but it might be easier if she introduces me to her friends which does happen.
Yea I see what you mean - But the problem is that if she's a certain type of girl - And she probably will be because she's gone on dates with you - Her introducing you to her hot friends will be an exciting idea that she might unconsciously sabotage for that attention from you (since you're giving it to someone else) - Maybe if you feel like you'd genuinely be interested in one of those friends to the point where if she shows interest you just talk and flirt but still interested in those other girls then 100% go for it - But if the moment she gives that "interest" you're gonna think "ohh this could happen with her now" - You might end up in a torturing cycle man
@jaybee281 I’m confused. Surely it’s just a matter of friends introducing to other friends
You will always have a thing for her and she will use that. You are setting yourself up to be used.
But she might introduce me to her friends.
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