If I even dated anymore it would depend on who initiated the divorce and why.
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9 out of 10 are less attractive via attitude towards the opposite sex. Which is derivative from their bad experiences or failures in marriages. Damaged commodities
Less attractive yes. Would you rather have a new car or a used one? New of course! You have no idea what the previous was like or the damage they did to it
not at all a sexy girl is still a girl where ever she has been for the last year or so?
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Not for me, I like equal status and at least want to be someone's first marriage. Otherwise, they will not be in the same place as mine. If I was divorced then I would have considered it.
People with fairly extreme one sided views will not be able to achieve a successful healthy relationship unless they’re able to learn and adapt in life. It always takes two even if not equally, if one person isn’t able to see it they’re lacking some sort of self awareness. People can also change and not want to be together. There are all sorts of valid reasons. Many petiole don’t truly appreciate what they’re getting into, especially when they marry young. To judge so harshly is ignorant of real life in all honesty. There are divorced people who would be better candidates for a long term partner than some single people. The world just doesn’t realistically exist in such black and white thinking.
Imagine a woman being cheated on and abused. This comment suggest she should just lay down and suck it up like a little lap dog. How can anyone possibly find that attractive. It’s sad. Weird way of looking at it.
@OceanGirl21 "People can also change and not want to be together. There are all sorts of valid reasons." This goes to show you clearly have a modern view of marriage where promising to be together until death actually means until you just dont want to be together. Exactly the kind of idea that makes someone unmarriagable as far as im concerned.
"Imagine a woman being cheated on and abused." The vast majority are not cheated or abused. So lets stop that nonsense. We aren't talking about fringe cases here.
I’m currently dating a divorced man and he has a lot more awareness about what can go wrong in relationships and is much more keen to address it earlier on. I respect that level of maturity and experience that others wouldn’t necessarily have. It makes his and my life easier and it feels safer being with someone who has that kind of foresight and attentiveness towards our relationship.
@OceanGirl21 I think women typically think like that but the question was about divorced women and I don't think most men think about women like that. Part of me believes a non divorced women is less likely to divorce (i believe data backs this up although I dont specifically have a statistic to share with you) while another part of me doesn't even care about that and just wants to be first. The man who is first wins. I would feel like I got a shitty deal by being with a divorced woman. I value a woman with a clean slate more than i value a woman with experience.
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There are so many factors to consider. They are still beautiful. If that is what to are referring to
I wouldn’t hold ONE divorce against her, but two or more would be dealbreakers, as would having kids.
No, they actually look exactly the same as other women.
Yea, sorry damaged goods.
No, it doesn’t matter. Kids matter. I don’t do kids.
It makes no difference what is in the past. What matters is now.
If I even dated anymore it would depend on who initiated the divorce and why.
9 out of 10 are less attractive via attitude towards the opposite sex. Which is derivative from their bad experiences or failures in marriages. Damaged commodities
Divorced women are definitely less appealing.
Any specific reason?
Emotional baggage.
Less attractive yes. Would you rather have a new car or a used one? New of course! You have no idea what the previous was like or the damage they did to it
not at all a sexy girl is still a girl where ever she has been for the last year or so?
Not for me, I like equal status and at least want to be someone's first marriage. Otherwise, they will not be in the same place as mine. If I was divorced then I would have considered it.
Divorce is not bad, it is result of miscomparison between couples
Divorce is a issue no matter the gender
Absolutely no problem with "used" merchandise.
doesn't matter, I have dated one in the past
I don't know, what is A women?
Yes, I feel
Sounds Good
Not at all
Single never married
What if You fell in a Love with a Divorcee Woman, Would You Marry her?
Never marry a divorced woman. Im not insane.
But What is her Fault there?
Because she does not take her marriage vows seriously. If she will break her promise once she will break her promise twice.
Oh... So a Woman is always to blame for her unsuccessful Marriage? Could not her husband been on a Wrong Side?
People with fairly extreme one sided views will not be able to achieve a successful healthy relationship unless they’re able to learn and adapt in life. It always takes two even if not equally, if one person isn’t able to see it they’re lacking some sort of self awareness. People can also change and not want to be together. There are all sorts of valid reasons. Many petiole don’t truly appreciate what they’re getting into, especially when they marry young. To judge so harshly is ignorant of real life in all honesty. There are divorced people who would be better candidates for a long term partner than some single people. The world just doesn’t realistically exist in such black and white thinking.
Imagine a woman being cheated on and abused. This comment suggest she should just lay down and suck it up like a little lap dog. How can anyone possibly find that attractive. It’s sad. Weird way of looking at it.
@OceanGirl21 "People can also change and not want to be together. There are all sorts of valid reasons." This goes to show you clearly have a modern view of marriage where promising to be together until death actually means until you just dont want to be together. Exactly the kind of idea that makes someone unmarriagable as far as im concerned.
"Imagine a woman being cheated on and abused." The vast majority are not cheated or abused. So lets stop that nonsense. We aren't talking about fringe cases here.
@OceanGirl21 Very well Said " There are divorced people who would be better candidates for a long term partner than some single people " 🙏❤
But mostly not.
I’m currently dating a divorced man and he has a lot more awareness about what can go wrong in relationships and is much more keen to address it earlier on. I respect that level of maturity and experience that others wouldn’t necessarily have. It makes his and my life easier and it feels safer being with someone who has that kind of foresight and attentiveness towards our relationship.
@OceanGirl21 That's Good to hear that People are treating divorcee people like other Normal Human being !
@OceanGirl21 I think women typically think like that but the question was about divorced women and I don't think most men think about women like that. Part of me believes a non divorced women is less likely to divorce (i believe data backs this up although I dont specifically have a statistic to share with you) while another part of me doesn't even care about that and just wants to be first. The man who is first wins. I would feel like I got a shitty deal by being with a divorced woman. I value a woman with a clean slate more than i value a woman with experience.
@priyakigaandme of course!! 😊
I live under no illusions. Life experience is always the best teacher. 😊