I’m not trying to find anything. It’s literally a simple question. You’re assuming I’m hoping for more here, I’m still unsure of that yet.
It bothers you enough to pose the question which suggests that you care about what the answer might be.I know it's not the answer you want to hear. But the best thing that you can do is just be confident in yourself and know that It will be easy to determine what his intentions are with time. So as I previously said, I would go with the flow and let things happen naturally.
Way off like I said but whatever you need to make you feel better
That first sentence was gold. Is that like a saying or something. That explains exactly what I was thinking about her post. Spending Christmas together doesn't mean the guy is serious lol. It could mean that but it is all subjective and no one can know but the guy. Better off just asking the guy his intentions for the relationship.
Obviously but when you’re not convinced of their honesty…you starting to get it yet?
The reason I’m asking (not that I should have to justify it, I mean I personally thought common sense would automatically explore many various options, but hey, it’s the internet) is because I’m trying to figure out whether something feels off or not. He’s said he wouldn’t invite me over at those times if it were just casual but obviously I’m aware that it could be the case for just sex - again, surely that goes without saying in an adult conversation.
I get that you are conflicted because his intentions are unclear. All William and I are saying is that worrying about it is not a productive use of your time.If he turns out to be an ass, then worrying about it won't bring about that revelation any sooner. The best thing you could do really is to go with the flow and hope for the best. Not to mention if you and this guy are not exclusive then there is nothing stopping you from playing the field as well and keeping your options open 🙂
Who says being curios is worrying about it though. I get what you’re saying but I just think it’s coming from the wrong angle when a simple answer would’ve better sufficed. But thanks.
We are exclusive but I’m considering opening options up. I do go with the flow, but I’m also one for intuition and feeling out the bigger picture before becoming blind sighted (where no offence, but many men tend to falter a bit there).
The issue is just that. There is no simple answer. Some people are good intentioned, others are gonna tell you what they think you want to hear to get in your pants.There isn't a simple answer here. That's all I'm trying to tell you.
No offense taken, The majority of us suck.
I know, I’m already well aware of that. But what I’m saying is gaining a general consensus also has its purpose.
You don’t suck, we’re all just wired a little differently. That challenge is good. It’d be boring otherwise.
Okay but I don't know this guy. I Don't know his history. I don't know how well he treats you when you are together. So the answer really is 50/50 with the lack of data on him
He does treat me well for the most part, he can be grumpy and critical sometimes.
Wants to meet my family and have me meet his etc.
I can relate to the grumpy and critical. These are classic guy things xDHe seems like someone I'd hang on to and give the benefit of the doubt
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Would he buy quite a few gifts for her and her family?
Guess he really likes the sex with you
He also sends me pictures of him with his nieces (he knows I’m not too fussed about having kids though)
Then I think he is more serious
Upon acquiring new information, I have altered my thoughts on this. I still don't know much about the situation. Do you want to be serious with him? Is it suppose to only be casual? If you want it to be serious than you want a serious relationship. And if you want a serious relationship then... I look at very simple. If I want to be serious with a girl I find out what she wants. What kind of guy she wants, what kind of relationship she wants, everything so I can know whether it is a waste of time or not. If you don't do that you will most likely get blind sided. I don't understand why people like to go in blind and see if it works out. You end up wasting years and the pain is the worse. If you both want exactly the same thing and have personalities that don't mess it up then it will work out fine. So once again why don't you just ask him? Communication. I am still not even sure what this post is about tbh