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I'm an introverted girl, but I'm never good enough for introverted guys?

Anonymous
I have a good circle of friends, and am generally pretty social, but I'm also solidly introverted, and naturally have a "loner" type personality.
When it comes to dating, my type has normally been other introverts; guys who are a bit emotionally distant and are more intense or intellectual. But whenever I date those types, I always get dumped for more outgoing, 'fun' girls, and it leaves me feeling very inadequate, especially since those guys' personalities are similar to mine (they don't like their "own kind").

In contrast, all the guys who've ever really liked me and wanted to date me seriously have all been more extroverted, and I can't figure out why this is. Has anyone experienced this before? Not being "good enough" for those just like you, but desirable to people different from you?
I'm an introverted girl, but I'm never good enough for introverted guys?
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