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Am I selfish for being upset over this? I feel like he choose weed over me?

Anonymous
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I don’t smoke weed at all, I just don’t enjoy it and he’s a stoner. He smokes it all day every day and I’m getting tired of it. He’s 34 and I’m 29. I’m upset because he spends about 100$ a week on weed but can rarely ever take me out on a date. I pay when we go out about 90% of the time and I’m getting sick of it. Not only that but he’s always so high I’m constantly driving everywhere. Even on my birthday I thought he was gunna drive us to my birthday dinner and he came over so high I ended up driving. In 2 years I’ve only been in his car a handful of times. I don’t want to sound ungrateful or selfish but I’m upset about this. I feel like he chooses smoking over me. How would you feel if you were in my situation?
Am I selfish for being upset over this? I feel like he choose weed over me?
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