Should I disclose that I’m fat/chubby to a guy? (Page 2)
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Not a good choice to lie. When I was dating I was always straight up..
Who said I was lying? I’ve posted full body photos of myself on social media and he’s liked them. How is that lying?
Oh I missed that bit. It's not lying. I was under the impression that you were wanting to hide your appearance from him, sorry about that.
No. I’m not trying to catfish anyone. That’s why I post full body photos of myself. I don't know. I just feel insecure about it I guess.
I get that. Trust me on this. I use to be over 400 pounds..
Nah if a girl brought that up before we started dating, I probably wouldn't even go. Just shows she's insecure. I also wouldn't say your fat tbh
Thanks. I just felt like I didn’t want anyone to think I’m a catfish
You look pretty good in that photo. Nonetheless I would go ahead and tell him just so he is aware that you're still in the process of losing weight. If he's a decent guy he won't care.
Hiding something is never a good idea, because he'll know it someday, and he won't be happy about it.
Also, you're not fat. Chubby at best.
I’m not hiding it. I post full body photos on my social media and he has liked my photos.
Then what's the problem? What do you want to disclose if he has seen you?
He hasn’t seen me in person. I don't know. Sometimes I forget that I lost 60 lbs and still think I’m a lot bigger than I actually am.
don't sell yourself short, just be yourself show up and have a good time.
That is who he likes.
Unless he's never seen you or a picture of you, he already knows.
He’s seen my photos but never in real life.
And it also shows your insecurity about it, which isn't attractive (think about the reverse). You like guys to have confidence right? It's attractive in you also, especially body confidence (hard when you don't have it isn't it? LOL).
It’s hard because I was overweight for years. Sometimes I still catch myself buying clothes in my old size which is way too big for me now.
Yeah you don't have to say anything to him. It won't be a "shock" to him or anything. Even if you do look heavier in person, which you probably don't. But like I say, "disclosing" it just shows how insecure you are about it. And if he's mature, it won't matter that much (and if it does, you probably don't want him anyway).
Thanks 👍 I look the same as the photo in person. Lol.
Yep, don't worry about it :)
And congratulations on the weight loss. For what it's worth, I think you look really good.
Thank you so much! ❤️
Yes, but that shouldn't bother him too much.
No I think it's fine :)
you dont look it. You look fine
He my be fat and chubby too
He’s fit 😭
He knows how you look.
YOu know sooner of latter he will find out.
I feel like maybe he already knows because he’s liked all of my full body photos
There you go!!
LOL. That's what you kids call "fat" these days?
Apparently.
you are fat but you are fine
Sure why not most guys like it
He already knows.
Yes, send a pic
He’s already seen full body photos of me
Then he knows how you look
Yeah