What things do girls do wrong when trying to get a guy to ask them out?

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Stroke their hair a lot

They say I like your shirt

They say you have a nice smile

They look at a guy like he is candy they want

They get in a guys personal space

They pout their lips

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Answer 1

Phoenix-gb | 232 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

There's nothing 'wrong' with any of the above (I'd love to experience some of those), but have to agree with DizzyDesii, the biggest error is not just coming out and saying you like the guy.
(seriously, we're not great at picking up the small stuff)

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Answer 2

Avicenna | 11.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Pretending there are multiple guys interested in her is one of them or playing coy/hard to get. But Dizzy is right, the main one is not taking the initiative herself.

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Answer 3

Jasmine-Darkfire

Xper 4

The first thing they do wrong is trying to get him to ask her out, just ask him out. We ae in 2022.

I know it sucks, rejection always sucks no matter who is doing the asking, just do it!

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pizzalovershouse

3 mo
Yes but even if done it has to be done right you just ont go up to a guy and say will you go out with me
Jasmine-Darkfire

3 mo
Depends, I done that before but it was a specific event, do you want to go with me to this dance.

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pizzalovershouse

Yes but even if done it has to be done right you just ont go up to a guy and say will you go out with me

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Jasmine-Darkfire

Depends, I done that before but it was a specific event, do you want to go with me to this dance.

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DizzyDesii | 3.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

The main wrong thing is if we dont just ask him out ourselves. Saves a lot of wasted time since he's not a mind reader, regardless of if he accepts or rejects

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pizzalovershouse

3 mo
Excellent point 👍👍

Answer 7

pizzalovershouse

Excellent point 👍👍

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Slartybartfast | 402 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Not saying so would be the obvious answer. Men don't like games and women who play them.

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magiusX26 | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

being subtle/expecting him to make the first move. so basically all of the above.

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magiusX26

3 mo
for those thinking a woman asking a guy out is modern thinking...

https://youtube.com/shorts/pxmVpKJ6lkM

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magiusX26

for those thinking a woman asking a guy out is modern thinking...

https://youtube.com/shorts/pxmVpKJ6lkM

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MrtoddsWildRide | 224 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

It is possible and usually a bit of a turn on if you ask him out

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Austin619

Xper 1

When they invade my space it makes me uncomfortable

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Answer 13

Anonymous

I doubt this will ever change but girls not asking a guy out first for once

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molonski2 | 217 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Its really a bit of " All of the above "

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legalboxers | 3.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

how are those wrong answers lol

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Naughtyboy71 | 151 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Nothing girls just need to smile

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JamesRandiDebates | 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

All of those options are perfectly acceptable.

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Answer 18

msc545 | 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

They very occasionally sulk.

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FunkyMonkee | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Say, "NOO!!".

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jasco | 2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Honestly ladies, y'all just need to ask him out

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Jamie05rhs | 4.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

They say 0 words.

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Answer 22

Anonymous

I say E and F.

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