We've been together 8 months. We're great together, but I'm sick and tired of him not asking me out. We see each other once a week at the most, and I have to beg him to go out with me. It's rare for him to make the move, and if he does, it's because I detach myself from him for a little bit. We both have busy schedules but I know if he wanted to it would be easy to find time to be together. We text 2-3 times a day, don't talk on the phone or on aim more than once a week (when it does happen). We used to talk all the time... Is this just the honeymoon phase ending?
I hate playing games and this is just stressing me out like crazy. I'm going to talk to him (whenever I get to see him next... urg) because that's the thing to do, but seriously, what gives? Are guys just like that? I see couples who practically live together or whine when they haven't seen each other for a day... And he lives 10min away by car. It's like long-distance, but worse (since he actually is right here).
Anyway, share your thoughts, tell me if I'm absurdly clingy, advice, anything.
Most Helpful Girl
This is like me and my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years. Yes the "honeymoon" face has ended. And that's totally okay. He is prob comfortable with the relationship and doesn't see the need to constanly be attached at the hip withyou. It's not even healthy to have that type of relationship. Also he prob thinks that you will be te one to ask him out. But f it bothers you not talking to him as much or seeing him you can ALWAYS tell him how you feel.
Best of luck- Glitter1
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