So OK I've been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks
We really hit it off from the beginning. On Friday night, his best friend tells me that the guy reaaaaalllly likes me, he's a good guy, I shouldn't jerk him around, blah blah. I really like him too. (He told me himself later on, but we were both drunk)
On Saturday, he texted me to make sure I made it home safe, and then was asking how I was doing, you know the usual.
Monday, we texted all day. I suggested we do something this week, and he said Ya sounds like a good idea ! Maybe Thursday or Friday ? so I said OK I'll let you know !
The day after, no text, no call, nothing. So yesterday morning I texted him; no answer. I texted again in the afternoon, just saying '' Hey so I cleared up my schedule for 2morrow night of you still want to do something !'' - No answer. He usually takes a long time to reply when he is busy, I'm used to it, but hey I'm a girl and I can't read his mind so I was worried.
I got home and called him from home (my number is listed as private...) He picked up, we talked for a bit, said he left his phone on the charger all day, didn't have it with him. So I said OK, I texted you to see if you were still up to do something tomorrow night ! HE suggested we do something on the Friday instead, because that would give us more time since on Thursday he has a hockey game at 11. I was like..Ok whatever you want to do, that's fine by me ! but aren't you going out on Friday ?'' And he said No, only Saturday this week. So I said OK if you want to, I'll keep my Friday night for you, and he said ''I'll keep my Friday night for you too !''
then we hung up because his friend was picking him up for a basketball game. He said he was gonna call later, I said I was gonna be busy (esthetician) so he said OK I'll text you after my game then !
NO TEXT... what does that mean ? Am I paranoid ? I have this weird feeling he doesn't really want to see me, but then again I don't know him a lot. Last Friday not only did he tell me he liked me, he actually said '' I'm crazy for you, f*** I love you... I love you...'' but now since the morning after I feel like he's pulling away a little, he texts me reallllly less than before. Could he be shy ? He says he doesn't remember much from that night, (and he kept saying I was a jerk who only wanted sex, his friend told me the same thing, that I was a player, blah blah…)
SO basically…the morning after all that drunk talk, he texted me a lot. But then he went to see his friends in the afternoon and I have this weird feeling ever since, because he used to text me everyday for the past 2 weeks and now he doesn't.
So basically my question is :Why do you guys do this ? If he didn't want to see me, would he have suggested we do something on Friday ? I don't understand ! or am I just a freak and the fact that I have no text doesn't mean anything other than he was busy and tired ?
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Probably has a headache and slept most of the day...do you expect consistency from someone who drinks a lot?0