So I'm 16 and my boyfriend just turned 20. But when I was 13 I dated him and he was 17 then. We broke up because he got asked to join the army and I didn't really want him to go but he said yes. But now 3 years later he is still in the army but he isn't in the actual wars. So all my friends said it's weird but I don't think so. Dose it seem weird?
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Age seems to matter when were younger. When I read 16 and 20, that didn't seem bad. But when I read 13 and 17 it seemed like a big jump. It's like a person at the end of their high school years dating a person at the end of their middle school years. Does that not sound weird? But when you say 20 and 24 for example, it's not a big deal. It may be because when we're younger, age divides us by grades. I wouldn't worry about it. As long as you and you're boyfriend are happy, that's all that matters.0