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No, an older woman can teach a younger man several things. And, depending on her age, there may be no risk of pregnancy.
If you are talking about really old then I can see a problem but not just older
It's not so much a "bad idea" as it is just unlikely to work. Older women tend not to go for younger men.
In most cases yea, that's why most men prefer young women.
No. It's actually what a guy needs. they aren't going to bs u with emotional stuff. They are straightforward. And as for her. Ur young self is what she needs.
It depends on what the man wants if it's something short term and non-serious than sure.
I started dating a 40yr old (when I was 36), hasn't been bad for me. We're engaged and have 2 kids
I mean for a serious relationship, yea. But when it's established that it's just casual sex it can be fun.
I disagree. I think that mature women are delightful. They are so much better to talk to! They actually have DEPTH!
yep 100% they all part of the " 304 " club
also a lot of women forget their time is over once they hit 30.
@LimitedBenefits101
So you're saying my girfriend who is 13(12 years 8 months 5 days) older than me is a hoe. I completely disagree. We have been together for 8 years 8 months.
What makes you think all women are done when they hit the age of 30?
Older women with much younger men are just flat out desperate cougars.
Women should go with guys who are older in my opinion but couples that are more than 5 years apart are sus.
That's stupid, it's just an age, and it really doesn't matter or affect you whatsoever and you shouldn't care if it's 2 adults
@Slim57 idrc what you think but clearly you care bout my opinion 😂 sorry snowflake
@Slim57 all I did was answer the question but okay...🥱
You took the time to reply with not one but 2 comments but okay. I don't really care either honestly, I've dated mostly older women and now I'm dating a younger, there's really no difference, but you haters are all ignorant about it so it's whatever
@Slim57 maybe Oedipus complex but as far as I know the average man will reject older women
oedipus complex>>> men who like older womenoedipus complex>>> men who like older women @Slim57
That's definitely not what it is, I'm not into my parents
Oedipus complex not only likes their mother but also other older women, you may be surprised president emanuel macron his wife is his own teacher, his wife is 24 years older than macron..
@Slim57 as men we will usually reject older women
@wa1t1ngFuture doesn't mean older women like older men. Society is changing. There are more and more women who prefer guys younger than they are.
@wa1t1ngFuture this is me actually speaking from experience. And let me tell you, she did better than most younger ones I had.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 lol i used to dislike older women lol i would have turned it down lol but now i have a girlfriend who is older than me
😂...
that's the funny thing about life... actually I also agree that people say the reason they choose young men is because they have more attractive physique and strong stamina in sex... and some of the reasons are because they don't want to be widows because on average women live long while men do not.
@Slim57
you can't grow old with someone who is already old. If you're 40 and you're married to a 60 yr old senior citizen, you won't be happy. Besides, vast majority of people date and marry others close to their own age because similar ages mean having more things in common.
@wa1t1ngFuture
Young guys under 40 will always be more attractive than old guys. But it all depends on whether the woman can "get" someone younger than her. Typically guys prefer younger women.
@shaysh87 of course you can, women outlive men even if they're a lot older usually, and if not you can always find someone else, and well I don't have much in common with my own generation whatsoever, I actually despise them, I prefer traditional things, music, cars, values, so I find myself getting along with older people much easier than younger, but even so, that doesn't mean I'm opposed to dating younger, my girlfriend is 3 years younger than me now, first girlfriend I've had that was younger than me, you can choose your own way of happiness even if it's different from most other people's way.
@Slim57
3 years younger or older will not make a difference. However if your partner is 13-20 years older, then that would be something to be more concerned about. Statistics shows the larger the age gap, the shorter the marriage. And it makes a lot of sense. Imagine you are 40 years old (where you still have a lot of energy) being married to a 60 yr old senior citizen. Your spouse may not sexually fulfill you. You might no longer be attracted to your spouse. When you want to go out to do things, he /she may want to go to bed early or stay home. And its only a matter of time you become a "nurse " to your spouse , at a very young age.
Sure you can stay married to serve your spouse even when the golden days are over, but are you truly happy? i doubt it.
@shaysh87 To be honest, I wasn't attracted to older women from the start. but my boyfriend is different he has something unique by the way I am 17 he is 19-20. for me the maximum age is 3 years younger or older
Sory i mean my girlfriend... iam not gay/bisex... typing error
I'm charging and it's when charging, the keyboard is definitely an error
@shaysh87 by the way a lot, old women (over 35) nowadays get younger men. Many men today are attracted because they perceive older women as more mature and feel challenged/wanted to feel different than most people.
I think it's also good because women take longer to age and live longer so looking for a younger man is right choice.
@wa1t1ngFuture
Actually plenty of older women in their 40s-50s want younger men in their 30s. But reality is its uncommon for guys go for older women. So a lot of older women end up dating old guys they aren't attracted to.
I dont support huge age gap relationships due to the fact that you can't grow old with someone who is already old. Its only a matter of time when the breakup will happen or the younger party end up settling for a subpar marriage for the rest of their lives.
And there are a lot of indecent old guys out there who target dating young girls as young as their daughters because they have nicer bodies and tighter pussies and also more naive so its easier for him to manipulate her.
@wa1t1ngFuture
I have literally came across 40 yr old guys who insist on only dating teenage girls. And these teen girls are naive enough to believe that he's actually dating her because he likes her. But when you take a look at his dating history, he's just a fuckboi with a long series of very short term Relationships dating women 18-22 , which last anywhere from 3 weeks to 6 months. Its not surprising how none of those relationships last. How much would a 40 yr old have in common with a 20 yr old?
@shaysh87 if I become a 30 year old man and get a 50 year old woman I may not want to.. but if a 40 year old woman I will.
Dating an older woman is like paying full price for a car with over 100k miles on it. You just don't do it.
There may be some truth in that but I don't think it's a significant issue because guy generally go for women their age or younger while women usually go for men their age or older.
I stopped paying attention once the girl with the nice tits in the black bikini disappeared. What was the main point of the rest of it?
Older women are very opinionated, and jaded and have an agenda. Younger women seem happier and aren't jaded but are playing games. If only life life was simpler with women, lol
Cougars are fun. I’ve been with a few when I was younger
No not at all age is number if both click why not go for it.
ya women past a certain age are usually bitter and not even fun to be around 😂
Yes and it is bad for older man to be looking at younger women.
I don't like old women.
It's like why would I eat the leftover if I have fresh food.