If you had to choose, would you take a sexy woman or a kind woman?

[DermalPunch]

Doesn't mean the kind woman is ugly, she just doesn't have that head-turning allure. The sexy woman is just a handful.

Sexy woman

Kind woman

[ohshee]

I talked about this all the time when you meet somebody or when I meet somebody I want to know who they are on the inside I want to know how beautiful their heart is if they are Giver of self if they are kind if they are smart if they are happy can you can only do that by knowing the person from the inside the real person the outside of a person is all just an extra bonus there's different levels of sexy but I find a woman that is smart intelligent confident and Beautiful on the inside very hot very sexy that's who she truly is the outside is just all an extra bonus but if she has nothing on the inside and she just looks good on the outside she's not really my style so I would take the kind woman

[bean2k21]

I don't know what could be sexier than a kind woman, especially if she's kind enough to have sex with you.

[Anonymous]

KIND FOR SURE.
Infact I tend to gravitate to kind women and spend more time talking to them. It does not matter if they are "fat", feel they are ugly... or what ever the stigma is.
I have been told many times I am kind and this seems to attract women as well.

Here is the thing for me. I am supportive, reasuring, listening, forgiving, encouraging, comforting, fun loving, light heatred...
I want this as well in a mate. I want to be able to take the hard time I am having and find support. Or when I make mistakes and feel awful to be reassured that its ok. I want to be encouraged to not give up.

And making love to and holding a kind person is just so much warmer.

Sadly my experience is that my x would take my struggles personal and add to them. The "why don't you" nags and rejections is horrible from even a super model.

[DermalPunch]

Oh that last one. That can break you down to nothing.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I register personality more than looks.

And also, looks... They decay. They change. I don't care as much about whether my partner is head turning as much as I care that they make my heart pound.

It's easy to look head turning. Add some make up, a hair cut, maybe some months working on body composition. Smile.

But to be heart pounding? That's a bigger, harder to obtain standard. Lots more effort goes into that.

[ArchivalMars2]

I'd take the kind woman in a heartbeat, the sexy woman might turn my head and keep me interested to look at but I won't stay with her if that's all there is. At the end of the day, I want to be with someone that will give me peace and make me feel excited to be with. One of the things that has always drawn me to a girl was kindness, and more than that but the willingness to help others.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Sex is one very small part of the life, what to do with the other time...
If you are saying that the sexy woman is also a kind woman, then I would think about it.

But as far as your question goes, I would prefer a kind woman over a sexy woman for sure.

[Lionman95]

Kind for sure because for me the emotional bonding is way more important than the sexual parts because I´m generally not very sexual active and I couldn´t get along with a woman that has a high sex drive and is openly showing so.

[DermalPunch]

Sexy women don't shownoff theor sexuality. It exudes from them.

[Lionman95]

Let´s say that way a woman that dresses sexy on a regular basis gives me the signal/vibes that she might be confident enough to show off her body and attract male attention.
But because I´m not the kind of guy that thinks of himself that he has a chance in this competition because sex could be a factor in that battle I rather avoid those kind of women.
I didn´t say that to talk bad about her but I´d rather go for the kind women that might seem to average looking than for the sexy woman that attracts every guy´s attention.

[Curmudgeon]

Two latin phrases are necessary here:
1. Ceteris paribus (other things being the same), and
2. Prima facie (at first view)

Ceteris paribus, given two women of similar looks, intelligence, etc., yes, the kind one is MUCH better.

However, prima facie, kindness is not readily apparent. (Intelligence often is not either, but you get the idea).

[DermalPunch]

Whoooa, easy on the pedantry! But yes, I get you. The poll assumes the traits involved are apparent.

[Curmudgeon]

My bad. I have been told by some that I should have become a professor rather than an accountant, but I ruled that out because of the awful politics in academia. :-}

Anyway, I have seen many posts on G. A. G. by young ladies who lament that they are nice and kind if plain, and why do the boys all chase after the stunning ones even though they are usually bitches?

And I find peppering my explanation with a little Latin makes my explanation stick, even if it is not a happy one.

[One_Guy_]

Your question seems uncomplete.
Does it mean the sexy woman is not kind?
I would never take a whore, excuse my language, no matter how alluring she is, even for one night stand.
The same with ugly woman, the kindness is not a determining factor for me.
The perfect woman for quick sex - beautiful and interesting, with no STDs or mental issues.
The perfect woman to marry for me would be - smart, healthy, young and beautiful white virgin who knows her value, not a liar or spoiled in any other way.
I don't want to imply or offend anyone here, but kindness often goes together with stupidity, kindness is a good thing if it is directed toward good people only or animals.
Cheers

[DermalPunch]

If you had to choose one. I. e. which trait is more valuable.

[Reaper1985]

sexy women are better for hookups. kind women are better for relationships. since I don't engage in hookup culture rather have a women whos a blend. because she more likely has a personality I enjoy. but she can always switch up things to increase her sexiness a bit.

[hypojoe]

Some of the hottest chicks atittude and how they act and treat people makes them ugly in my opinion i dont care how hot you are or people think if your a piece of shit to people then you are shit

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’d rather have 2 in 1 if I was a man. But if I had to choose I’d take a kind one, sexiness can fade away, kindness can stay.

[Anonymous]

All the guys saying kind are the simp virgin losers on this site that “pick me” virtue signal whenever they can.
Not a single one of these liars would go with a fat/ugly female with a heart of gold.

When they say “kind” they mean someone who is attractive but also kind.

Your poll is flawed because the two options are not mutually exclusive.

[DermalPunch]

While trying to silence the axe loudly grinding in your answer I will say this. It isn't. There are kind women who aren't sexy and there are sexy women who aren't kind. It is very possible for these two qualities to be mutually exclusive. Thankfully, it is very often that these qualities co-occur in an individual. The purpose of the poll is to see which quality people would choose if they could only pick one.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes that is true... there are sexy women who are not kind, and guys will still date them. There are not sexy women who are kind and men will not date them.

The unattractive, unkind female is definitely not datable.

The kind and attractive females are the diamonds we all want... but not all to common.

My point was that then the males select kind over sexy, they are picturing the two together and pretending the sexy part is secondary but would not date a kind female who was not attractive.

[DermalPunch]

If you read the question details you would see I never suggested the kind woman was ugly or fat.

[Opinion Owner]

exactly... you left it open to interpretation and with that being a variable... it makes kind an option that has more than one reason.

[DermalPunch]

Ok. fair enough

[Panzer21]

I have to be physically attracted, thats basically non negotiable.

Im definitely down to be with a 6-7 whos kind. Im not down to be with a 9-10 whos a bitch.

[WhitneySnow]

Regardless of gender, kind is always more important than sexy (though it’s nice when they’re both)

[Кураж]

The sexy woman.
"Kind" is not a trait I look for in a partner, it's an arbitrary label.

[NathanDavis]

a handful of what? drama?

I don't do childish drama... lol

[Iron_Man]

If there’s no attraction then it will be a turn off kissing her and that would never work so it has to be sexy obviously and the rest comes into play after

[shyguy1886]

I voted the kind woman. The kind woman would win all day long for me. She would be sexy in my eyes anyway.

[Anonymous]

WOW, so many people are lying even in an online poll :D

[Marianna546]

trueeeeee

[slatyb]

Happily I don't have to make that choice. There are plenty of sexy kind women.

[DermalPunch]

Yesss we knowwwww. It is just to see if you had to choose. Like man o man people.

[roy_ricky09]

Kind

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