Okay, I might sound like a "creepy nerd", but if so then be honest and tell me.
I'm 27 years old. I never had a girlfriend before. I have had sex one time, and the girl liked me but I didn't like her. After we had sex, I freaked. Looking back on it, I kind of wish that I didn't do it.
Anyways, I have dated before for a brief period of time in college.
Fast-forward, haven't dated in a long while. I don't have have well-developed interpersonal skills, and I don't think that I'm very good-looking. I did used to have my picture on "HotOrNot" before and ranked 7 out of 10, but if I was naked and compared to any random 9 other naked guys then I would probably rank on the low end (to be honest).
That would be because I'm not too athletic and normally don't like playing sports.
Anyways, my positive attributes would be that I hold a bachelor's degree, work in the software development field, and that might be it. I think my car looks nice, but I don't know if that counts.
Also, I'm pretty filthy. How much of a problem is that? Is it something that I need to fix right away or can just put off till much later in my life?
I'm not sure how unattractive a messy apartment is for most women.
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It's not that hard to do some moderate exercise and clean your apartment, bro. You don't have to do a sport to find an exercise you like: there is yoga, pilates, running, weight lifting, martial arts ... pretty much everything under the sun. Cleaning tips: do it right away. Put something back where you got it when you're done, rinse your dishes after you eat, if you drag in dirt, sweep it up. That keeps the mess from getting too large. Start chit-chatting with cashiers, bank tellers, waitresses, etc. That will help you break out of your shell. Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" -- and oldie but goodie. Make sure that your sloppiness doesn't affect your style -- iron clothes, wear stuff that fits, get regular haircuts. Don't be the dude who wants to sit at home eating McBurgers while playing WOW for 12 hours. Hit up some events in town.1
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