This question is based on the answers from my previous first date post. Is she giving you girlfriend material or I wanna get laid tonight?
That sheâs confident with her appearance
She wants some of my sweet lovin'
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m There is sexy then there is slutty. So there is a difference. If it's sexy she is giving on confident vibes on how she looks and feels. If it's slutty she may not be as confident and wants to be seen as confident by showing off too much skin.
Don't have much dating-culture in Sweden (Except larger cities and the odd exceptions). This is me imagining from other encounters.
I'd try not to think an intention into it. She may be trying to signal one or she may just feel more comfortable sucking validation from her surroundings, I know the feeling; if I dress nice I feel more special from the looks I get. It's empowering in a way. Won't judge.
But rather I'd take it as a challenge to not let it affect me unless I feel I first have some other connection. I'm not going to fall for lust like that until I know she is comfortable with my reaction.
And I don't really mind the sexier looks. If I can't provide enough incentive for her to be loyal then it won't matter anyway.
The impression I get is: âWow, doesnât she look sexy!â (Note: for me, âsexinessâ = confidence.)
Also: âYou do you,â and I agree w @paige90 is basically saying in her opinion: âFlaunt it if youâve got itâ (in my own words: âRock Whatcha Gotâ).
s if it is someone I am dating or about to date...
then I will surely not go with impressions, no assuming, no judgment either...
I'll just go on with the date, and take the time to really know about her and forget about impressions as those can be quite subjective
It sincerely would make me worried, since a too likeable outfit is something strange to show for a first appointment with a person she doesnât know⊠she doesnât know me and she wants me to absolutely like her through her skin exposition? Hm suspicious and not too serious. Iâd like her before getting to know me and eventually after some time revealing herself.
Mu opinion doesn't change much from my original. I am happy she choose to spend time with me and we will have fun doing whatever is fun for both of us our date weather it's walking on the beach in moonlight or having a coffee in a quaint corner in the park. At the risk of sounding like Charlie Brown (a block head) a women looks sexy in to in any clothes. A woman dressing sexy would earn a compliment from me but I am the kind of guy who doesn't read into how someone dresses.
It could her saying she wants to get laid. But most likely it's "I'm just going to tease you". And it's most likely going to turn me off.
We've had this disagreement before. I have no problem with a woman "wanting to feel sexy". But i don't exist in her world SOLEY to stroke her ego. If she needs that that bad it's probably best she find another guy.
I have no clue pls give me the answers what impression are you girls trying to give? What impression are you trying to give if its like the 5th date? Does it change
If she has put in the time to look sexy, then she's made a GREAT impression on me! It shows she has self-confidence and an interest in making a good impression on me!
That's ALREADY 50% on her scorecard. The remainder will come from her personality. BONUS POINTS, if she's smart and funny!
Make me horny and my second heads taking over⊠do you wanna deal with smart me or mini me? Women with class will catch attention women with sexiness will catch this dick⊠which you want?
Could be both for me a sex outfit just says that she is comfortable with her body and self confident enough to show it.
To be fair, if your "sexy" hasn't gotten you laid or a second date, then it wasn't very sexy.
Id say it would give out, i wanna get laid tonight if we met online, but if it was outside somewhere, it would be i wanna be ur girlfriend
@Pinay_ako If a woman wears a sexy outfit, this gives me the impression that she'll be unfaithful.
it really depends how much sheâs showing her curves off and the setting of where we were hanging out tbh
If you know you look good you should show it off!
She may be a girlfriend... eventually... but if she's dressing really sexy, she wants to get laid tonight
It would depend on the outfit. If it's very revealing then yeah she wants sex. If it's showing some skin she could just want to tease him so he comes back for more
My opinion on this sadly doesnât necessarily reflect the opinion of the majority but the only impression I get is that sheâs confident. I donât how sexy a woman dresses has much to do with wether sheâs relationship material or not.
Not necessarily I wanna get laid tonight. I guess it depends on the girl. Some like to dress like that when ever they go out some don't. Id have to get to know her the determine if that was the case.
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