Would you be more likely to go from friends with benefits to relationship or the other way around?

[Jammaa]

Not open to either

Equally open to both

More likely to go from friends with benefits to a relationship

More likely to go from a relationship to friends with benefits

[Pinay_ako]

friends with benefits to relationship… you can’t just be having sex with a friend without some feelings of attraction for them. It happened to me. The physical attraction developed into mushy feelings and started to like each other more than our bodies can deny. It was amazing!

[ObscuredBeyond]

How long did it last? I've never had much luck getting anyone to stick around for long.

[Fuentes]

The only thing that happens to me is boredom after, attraction doesn't make me like them, it just helps me nut.

[Guardian45]

Do you usually go from friends with benefits to boyfriend? Or was it a one-time thing?

[Pinay_ako]

@Guardian45 we were just friends first, then we got really close, then one day we just made out 🤣. And got more intense. But didn’t really go into a relationship coz I had to move but we good still. I don’t do LDR

[Pinay_ako]

@ObscuredBeyond 2 years exclusive friends with benefits. I don’t do sleaze

[Guardian45]

I understand.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Amen to that. One gal got my hopes up for marriage, and then I leaned she was nothing but a lying sleaze. Been hard to get close to anyone since.

[dolemite89]

it’s always the girl that can’t just be happy with no strings attached, there’s always a shit or get off the pot moment 🤣🤣

[Pinay_ako]

@dolemite89 🤣 but when we move on, we move on and then he chases me like a ghost 👻 and I’m over him 🤣 bye ✌️

[dolemite89]

you need pills 😕

[Pinay_ako]

@dolemite89 🤔

[Belgie]

@ObscuredBeyond " you can’t just be having sex with a friend without some feelings of attraction for them. "

I think you have fundamentally misunderstood how men can separate sex from emotion.

[EarthRealm]

I’d rather be her from then he get obsessed with me and Instill doubt in her mind with Joking around about cheating on her and Do that with being super nice helpful and showing her that I care about her the doubt would always linger she would have a Fear 😨 that I would cheat on her so she’d do everything in her power to worship me and she would do what I want and would be submissive when I want her to be
Plus with her Obsession over my dick and her doubts as well as being super helpful caring and such she would be submissive whenever I want her to be because of her fear of me cheating on her and her obsession


Works every Time

[EarthRealm]

It doesn’t take much to get a Girl obsessed with me

[AviatorTom]

Interesting question.

I think it would be hard to go from relationship to friends with benefits because there would always be the relationship in the back of your mind. friends with benefits to relationship might be more likely to happen... familiarity sometimes breeds a desire for togetherness, but most FWBs just end.

[Anonymous]

My current relationship started out as a friends with benefits thing. We had no plan of it turning into a relationship, I actually ended it before things started getting more serious but he refused to end it and told me to just stop resisting lol Here we are 3 years later, still together, still having a lot of fun in bed and outside of bed.

[Wavvygurl]

Curious how long it took for your friends with benefits to become serious? I’m currently in a casual sex relationship, and, well, I’m starting to like him and unsure of what I should do.

[Opinion Owner]

@Wavvygurl I started catching feelings after a year then I confessed but told him I wanted to end it - he said he’s already developed feelings way before I did but was too scared to lmk bc he didn’t want me to get turned off.

If you like him but is not looking for anything more then I think you should just keep going as it is but if you like him enough to want a relationship out of this then you need to communicate that to him.

[Wavvygurl]

Thanks! That’s helpful. I don’t feel ready for a full on committed relationship right now. So I’ll just keep going with the flow 😊

[Opinion Owner]

@Wavvygurl glad I could help! Hope it works out, good luck!! ❤️

[Wavvygurl]

Thank you! Will you follow me? I would like to be able to dm you if I need advice or have questions. Okay, if not though. I still appreciate it!

[Opinion Owner]

@Wavvygurl sure thing, I just followed you! Feel free to reach out if you wanna chat 😊

[BullShark]

Sorry, I'm not really into the whole hook-up culture, so friends with benefits is out of the question for me. As for a relationship, yeah I'm open to that but if we break up, that's the end of that for us. We might stay friends depending on how close we were, but chances are, I won't be spending much time with them anymore, much less continue to sleep with one another. Why break up in the first place then?

[Qdbrown]

friends with benefits is proof that most women cannot handle just staying just that. If you want a recreational sex buddy for some relief, well, don't expect good things to evolve. There is dumb guys who get serious with the friends with benefits to their own demise.

[YaGirlKatie]

I was in a relationship for 5 months and then we had to call it off. But we tried to stay friends but we were still attracted to each other. Our nights turned into sex many times and we couldn’t keep our clothes off each other. We had to eventually end the friendship as we couldn’t stop having sex

[Adam1978]

I wouldn't go for a friends with benefits relationship, so I guess it could be downgraded to an ex you can have sex with until you find someone new. But I probably go cold turkey directly.

[Autember]

I would not want to continue seeing an ex boyfriend in any regards, but it would be sweet if your friends with benefits ended up getting mutual feelings for each other 🥰

[TransAm85]

I was a hooker/stripper when I met my now husband. We've been together almost 11 years, married 9 next month.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Both are pretty unlikely. In theory friends with benefits to relationship has the idea of lasting much more than vice versa because friends with benefits is known to be temporary.

[spartan55]

The odds of a guy wanting an upgrade from friends with benefits to committed relationship are SO remote. It ain't happenin.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Ever watched Friends with Benefits of
Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake?

Damn, i wanna be JUST LIKE THAT.
Except hearing "hey soul sister" music at the end. Lol

[petitedollbabee]

More likely to go from friends with benefits to a relationship. A few of my relationships have happened that way.

[Chazmatazz269]

Relationship to friends with benefits is more natural. If i felt like a relationship potential was there, i wouldn’t settle for friends with benefits in the first place.

[20yearsolder]

Probably from friends with benefits to a relationship because I would think eventually we would catch feelings for each other

[greentealatte]

It's usually hard for me to develop feelings for someone I don't immediately fall in love with.

[greentealatte]

so, I'm more likely to go from relationship to friends with benefits, I guess.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend and I have discussed a friends with benefits relationship if we can't get married for financial reasons. We're both on disability and the $ you get is less if you're married so it may not be the best financial decision.

[BCA6010]

There is no way I would ever get into a friends with benefits relationship.

[LikeALog]

We went from friends to friends with benefits to relationship.

[Anonymous]

Girls so desperately want a guy to go from being a fuck buddy to buying the cow.

We don’t grow feelings for a female who is going to fuck easily.

Regardless of what the virgins and simps on this site tell you

[PhenomenalQueen]

Yes and this is what I learned the hard way.. I fell for my friends with benefits and wow… that hurt…

[Qdbrown]

@PhenomenalQueen You set yourself up forthat. A F buddy is a F buddy.

[PhenomenalQueen]

Nah just doesn’t make any sense…. Most of the time friends with benefits do everything that makes a committed relationship, except for call it that.. So, that’s why women end up losing in those situations… When it’s just sex, that’s totally different… If all you’re doing is hooking up, then, I don’t understand how you could fall for someone… But the other thing, the way I was with him, it was literally a relationship without a title. I agree though, it does make me stupid and it was my fault because I should’ve just stuck by my morals and said no sex before commitment. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

@PhenomenalQueen In YOUR mind it was more than that. It was nothing more in his mind.

[Opinion Owner]

And girls who allow themselves to be fuck biddies hoping the guy will magically fall for them have no morals.
Don’t use pussy to manipulate.

[PhenomenalQueen]

I understand what you’re saying, but it’s not the same thing. Taking someone out on dates and then trying to say “we’re just friends” makes no sense. It’s like buying an engagement ring and then saying “we’re just FWB” everyone knows what dating leads to. So, if men aren’t ready for commitment they need to stop dating.. Hanging out, hooking up, one night stands , etc.. isn’t dating…

[Opinion Owner]

@PhenomenalQueen
Women use dates to get free shit from men, and are NOT required to reciprocate with sex.

Men use dates to get sex from women, but ARE required to spend endless amounts of money.

[PhenomenalQueen]

I understand when the girls are making you spend hundreds or thousands, but most men want you to sleep with them for a $20 meal… That’s a joke. Why not just pay a hooker for sex? Women who do that, are doing so because men waste their time. It’s the same concept that I learned in psychology, women use sex for love and men use love for sex.

[Opinion Owner]

@PhenomenalQueen Many men have opted to just pay a whore. There is less drama and expectation and it’s cheaper than dating.

[exitseven]

I have never had a friend with benefits but I can see how I would devlop feelings for somebody afterwards.

[genericname85]

i wouldn't go from relationship back to friends with benefits. i don't stay friends with people i have romantic interest in.

[Luopio27]

Afraid I will never get either.

https://youtu.be/wx_ZNn-_klk