He blames me for not hanging out, what can I tell him to let him know?

He's a good friend of mine, I haven't seen him in almost a year. I texts him back in the beginning of July and told him we should hangout, problem is every time he wants to hangout its at a party at night I told him I wasn't into the whole drinking/ smoking stuff so now he calls them small get togethers. But I never show up or text him back, he's always blaming me that we don't see each other because he invites. He thinks I'm acting " too cool" to hangout, what I tell him to make it clear I wanna hangout with him but those aren't my type of things?


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  • When he makes his suggestion, you counter with an alternative suggestion. Then it's on him if he doesn't want to hang out with you.


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