What bio makes one interesting on dating apps?

[UnknownSwede]

How would you like a dating profile to look for you to get interested?

[PrettyPriya]

The first thing that I would want to see is some general information about that person's life. Like what they do for work, what hobbies they have, do they spend time with family/friends, etc, etc.

I have never done online dating, but those items would give me a glimpse into what kind of person they are, however little of a look it would be. Next, I would want to know as much about their personality as possible.

That is a bit harder to convey considering people can just say they are outgoing, even if they aren't. However, lying on that is quickly uncovered if a date were to ever occur. So, some truthful things about personality would be good.

I'd also want to know what they are looking for. I am not one that wants short term relationships. I would want to know that the guy I would potentially go on a date with would at least be open to the possibility of a longterm relationship, if everything went well.

[UnknownSwede]

It was a bit like this I was asking for. Things to highlight when you have a limited amount of space to write things on a dating app.

In general what to focus on to catch the initial attention.

[PrettyPriya]

If you have limited space and want to highlight things, I would highlight a bit about your personality and life. Things you like to do, etc.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂

[UnknownSwede]

You're welcome

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Personally, I don't look that much in the bio. I click the profile, see the content and see what's in there. But if I would recommend a bio, maybe something about you that will attract curiosity.. or an awesome quote about you.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

The bio I'm referring to is the headline by the way.. I got the wrong term, maybe because I use Facebook haha 🤣✌️ But the ones I notice are those who have precise and well-written content, maybe something about you, your passion, and what you're looking for.

[UnknownSwede]

Will the text matter if you are not really sold on the pictures? Like if it would get you interested anyway?

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Of course, that gets me really interested.. even curious about knowing him more. 😊

[UnknownSwede]

That is good to know. I'm at best a solid 6, so my words is what I will have to work with most of the time.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Believe you're a solid 10! Haha. Anyways, best of luck! 😎🙌

[UnknownSwede]

Haha well it's all in the eyes of the beholder. But for most girls I would not be more than a 6.

[slatyb]

I did a lot of online dating. Many women had very boring profiles -- they liked traveling and beaches and dining out. When I read that in a profile I thought "Not very bright if she imagines that's interesting". The profiles that caught my eye told me something particular -- her interests, how she spends her time, what she's reading or watching or listening to, her values, her world view. My match profile was two or three paragraphs. Seems like a lot but for most people that's one or two minutes of reading. It worked for me -- I was pretty successful dating online. Eventually a lovely woman read my profile and thought we would be a good match. Now we're married.

[UnknownSwede]

Well I'm a man and not a woman, so what a man look for is different. Since they have endless amount of guys who likes their profile, they usually don't take their time to read a lengthy profile.

[slatyb]

How are old are the women you are pursuing?

My thought was "If she can't be bothered to read it, I'm not missing anything". I didn't write to very many women. When I did, I wrote a message to that woman telling her why I was interested.

[UnknownSwede]

Around 30, give or take a couple of years. Online dating is not really a man's market, if he isn't in the top percentiles when it comes to looks.

[slatyb]

Men are more focused on appearance than women, although I wasn't. Mostly I searched for religious compatibility, non-smoker, not wanting additional children.

[UnknownSwede]

Women put at least as much focus on appearance. That's proven by statistics from dating apps.

[UnknownSwede]

And a woman here even replied and said she only look at the pictures.

[slatyb]

So? She's not a woman I would want to date. I got a few messages from women who seemed not to have read my profile. I politely declined.

[UnknownSwede]

I guess you're in the top percentile then, if you get a lot of attention.

[slatyb]

I didn't get a lot of attention, just enough.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Interesting question. What has worked for me is pictures... especially with my shirt off. I've found the writing part is just wasted energy almost all the time. I think what worked best there is just coming up with a bunch of puns.

"I stand erect in the face of adversity. I would like to stuff your oven and want you to get honey buns and take my cream pies."

That kind of stuff. That's the only time the writing part has helped me find someone to practice giving deep vaginal massages to with my penis.

[jennifer_bloom]

The most interesting photo I ever saw on a dating site is when a guy who was white showed me pics of him doing humanitarian work in Africa.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most important things to put on dating profiles are hobbies, interests, talents, habits, lifestyle, annoyances/dealbreakers, what kind of partner you are into, whether you will only date locally or internationally, and if you have kids/pets, any allergies or illnesses, and if you have belief systems/addictions/bad habits.

Ignore the people saying any of that is superficial, it's not, it's the glue in a relationship, and can make or break what is or isn't considered a match. People have to relate to get along, and fights and arguing are NOT normal in a healthy relationship.

[RyanDeal009876]

I like to read women's profiles that don't have a bunch of demands.

I like when they talk about themselves rather than just what they want, want, want as if the woman has no responsibility in the relationship.

[Guy13]

You’re not asking for much 😉

Dont they have websites with suggestions about this topic⁉️ Most the guys I know went through and took pieces from varying portfolios they liked.

[UnknownSwede]

Can't people Google every answer they ask on this app/site? It's like people's personal take on things.

[Guy13]

I don't know. dating coach websites maybe.

[Anonymous]

No bio.

I have tried many versions and I've found leaving you bio BLANK to be the most effective.

Women are generally very bad judges of character. They are frequently way off the mark with the men they choose. Women generally just look at your pics and start to write the own story in thier head anyhow. So why correct them? Let them believe whatever they want to believe.

[TheVigilantOne]

I’m not one for bio’s I never read them anyway when I went on dating apps, I like mystery and to learn about a person, I don’t want to be bombarded with information in the space of 30 seconds, learning about a person is more fun.

[Pot8o]

If you're not short, you should list your height. Women absolutely respond to that.

[UnknownSwede]

Haha I'm 186/6'1" and I have had that in my profile before but removed it because it felt a bit cringe and I noticed no difference after.

[Pot8o]

Okay

[UnknownPuppet]

No bio. Just the photos and your interests are enough.

[UnknownSwede]

You think it's enough with that?

[UnknownPuppet]

Based on my personal experience yes

[UnknownSwede]

Well you mean that guys like you based on only that or that you swipe right on guys just from pictures and listed interests?

[es20490446e]

Don't put the superficial stuff there. Like height, job, hobbies, etc.

Rather try to give a vibe, mostly through images, and what you are looking for in a partner.

[AddylynnNightingale]

A bio that makes you authentic. No Generic crap.

[exitseven]

If it said she is out on parole.

[BJP21]

Ones that are not fake.

[KostasKouvalis]

Impractical Jokers bios

[jimmy2]

Sorry no scams I been tested by asswholes

[Hotboy_booblover]

For males rich.. for girls DD