What would make you ask someone out on a date?

[Pinay_ako]

[William7489]

In this day and age, sadly the bar has dropped lol. As a guy, who is a little bit older and been married, I just do not have the time or patience any longer for games or drama. And you’ll find that from those people in their 40s and Above. I am looking to date people that are somewhat attractive, laid back/patient, willing to compromise, who understand that life is a marathon not a sprint and that relationships are hard work. If you find somebody who has their head on straight like that, who’s really looking for the right things and not price tags then go for it! Because it’s a jungle out there. And you have to be very careful who you ask out.

[BLP11520]

Personality and decent looking

[jennifer_bloom]

I need to know he is kind and loyal and attainable for me to want to date him. I've met attractive guys that I did not do anything about cause I thought they were surrounded by woman who made more money and looked better then me.

[Bethany22]

Men don't usually care about how much money a woman makes

[DeeDeeDeVour]

When I was still single, I have asked guys out...

1. because he seems interesting.

2. because I wanted to prove him wrong about me.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Salamat @Pinay_ako para sa MHO! :)

[Pinay_ako]

🥰 I love that 🥹

[Summeroflove]

Prove wrong about what? If I may ask

[DeeDeeDeVour]

@Summeroflove
One guy spread rumors that I'm a "high-maintenance stuck-up bitch who wanted to be out of reach" when we in college. So, I confronted him and asked him to have a long lunch date with me so we can get to know each other better. It worked. We liked each other but there was not spark between us. He remains one of my dearest friends to this day.

[dynamicyandere]

If I was single and open to dating, it would have to start off as friends, acquaintances, or a stranger and we happen to be doing an activity together like going to the same gym or social club and for whatever reason we interacted.


There needs to be some sort of interaction first, platonic or otherwise.


Then, there needs to be really good initial chemistry and something about them that peaks my interest and causes me to want to know them more.


When I sense the feelings are mutual and they seem to enjoy being around me as well, then I’d suggest something casual like hanging out sometime on a weekend to grab a bite.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Things have been going well, I confide in her to some degree already, and my curiosity is piqued to see what else her and I can accomplish together, and she's inspired in me enough confidence that I'm willing to ask her, risky though it may be.

The more her and I can both learn from and teach one another, the more interested I become.

Granted, a lot of modern gals feel pressure to have sex immediately. That's not the case. By the time I'm seriously considering sex, I already consider the gal a strong candidate for marriage. Not gonna give those goods up otherwise. I have no use for one night stands.

[AviatorTom]

Back when I was single, if a woman was physically attractive, looked interesting, and maybe I knew that we had some common interests, I'd consider asking her out on a date.

We all know that physical attractiveness is the first thing that catches out attention.

[ChiTown33]

I have to feel she genuinely likes me. We have to have a bit in common, shared interests. And there's a couple things that the right women do that'll make me putty in thier hands. But that, I'm going to keep close to the vest. She'll have to figure those out. 🤫

[dustybiker]

I just knew. I didn’t want to create a regret so went for it. They either liked me or didn’t. Thankfully they always liked me.

[Pinay_ako]

How can we not

[dustybiker]

@Pinay_ako Awe 🥹 thanks. I think GaG can heavily testify to people blocking me though. lmao

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 let them. They can’t handle the truth. They do that to me too but we’re both still talking to each other rn so we’re good 🤣.

[dustybiker]

@Pinay_ako Positive side. lmao. 👍🏻

[BlueScorpio]

Usually if the persons finds that person attractive or interesting.

[Pinay_ako]

What is that

[RavVid]

Well first that I want to have sex with her.

Second that there is a reasonable chance that they will say yes and not respond 'What! Me with you? I really think you should be more realistic who ask out in future.'

[Summeroflove]

Most of the time I have to know someone first. Maybe if it was just someone who I really wanted to know.

But more often then not. If I know them and are attracted.

[Summeroflove]

your comments are gone

[MCheetah]

If they don't seem like a Karen/b*tch who'd accuse me of "sexual harassment" for making eye contact at her, and I'm attracted to how they look or act.

[TroyDT2]

She's not obese, doesn't stink, and seems to be alone.

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 ok

[AddylynnNightingale]

When I finally realized that I like him. As soon as I make that click I ask him out. He is mine.

[Voldra]

Fun bubbly personality; if she would make a good mother, if I could take her to a parent teacher conference or back home to meet my family without feeling ashamed. I'm not the casual type of guy but starting to reconsider if I'm honest.

[Havthrills]

I like her personality and would want to know her more. I've never really been on a date before being with someone. I don't know what it's really like.

[MysticDevice]

If she said her favorite show was Stargate, she goes to the Renn Faire every year, hates country music, and listens to heavy metal.

[HighValue]

Seem to have compatible morals and interests based on conversations.

[bobby_bush_eater]

The feeling of a potential connection, wanting to know more about this person and being physically attracted to her. Or I'm drunk...

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Her great personality would allow me to ask her out on a date.

[Iron_Man]

I wouldn’t I have a beautiful girlfriend from 16 months ago

[Philyouup]

being attracted to her or for any number of reasons

[pizzalovershouse]

Funny photo caption if I. Enjoying date yes I ask for 2nd date